Comments | youwhowereborn: OK I think I realized what my singular 2009 new year's resolve is

youwhowereborn

OK I think I realized what my singular 2009 new year's resolve is

Jan 03, 2009 18:22

to be way way way 100,000,000x more honest, even at the risk of losing friends and alienating people. I think I am way too diplomatic/avoidant/self-censoring. I hide. "For there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known. Therefore whatsoever ye have spoken in darkness shall be heard in the light; and that ( Read more... )

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frandroid January 4 2009, 15:31:05 UTC

Diplomacy can be a way of caring for others, too. Not everyone reacts the same way to having negative stuff about themselves reflected to them. And your own perception of someone might not be accurate either, and your telling them "the truth" might actually hurt a relationship or a friendship.

youwhowereborn January 4 2009, 15:49:13 UTC

All true enough, but in my case I think I use it in ways that do a disservice to myself and others...

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WHAT ABOUT DRAGONS youwhowereborn January 5 2009, 22:02:28 UTC

CANT THEY HELP!?!

WITH SPEAKING!?!

youwhowereborn January 5 2009, 22:00:32 UTC

Come live with me and be my LUV and we will all the pleasures PRUV