Friend A has been having a really crappy time in her romantic life and is turning to drink to ~*~escape the pain~*~ I've been talking to her constantly and trying to help her out because apparently I'm her BESTEST FRIEND. That's cool. I don't mind. We are pretty good friends, and we both enjoy flirting around shamelessly. It has been this way for 5 years. Nothing has ever happened. The most that has ever gone down was "Yeah, I'd probably sleep with you if we were both raving drunk and single and in the mood."
Then, last night, she's all like "I want to fuck you." And I was like "O_O Are you drinking?" And she said no. She just really wanted me or whatever. I gently as I could but firmly turned her down, and she hasn't texted me since. I'm assuming she's being butthurt.
I tell Friend B about this. Because I usually go for her for advice on how to deal with Friend A. She is unsurprised and chides me for not realizing that this is how it would go down because I 'lead people on'.
Ugh. ): Sounds like Friend A is getting desperate (no offense to you, I swear omg) for attention, aye?
But it's funny that guys can joke around like this, but when girls do it... |: *sigh* I hope this all works itself out somehow. And thinks don't get awkward...if they haven't already.
Yes, yes it does. Flirting is kind of like my main form of communication, but when you're a pan-romantic bisexual who has a magnetic personality, people have the unfortunate habit of becoming attracted in you in ways other than platonic. Very problematic! :P
Awesome movies kind of don't help, considering I'm working on a feature film and that's where my problems of people-being-interested-in-me-romantically are arising! Damn the other guys for thinking me so attractive! XDDD
You is talking about that one night at nae's house right? And don't worry I know you joke around alot, I mean the 5 jokes around like that alot, or they used to... *pats* and I read some comments and it seems she's not texting/talking to you?
I didn't mean you SHOULD change or anything. I just meant that you shouldn't be surprised when things like this happen OUTSIDE the five... or with one in particular in the five. And it's especially not surprising because of Friend A's PERSONALITY.
I mean, the only thing that's stopped her so far is that she's been un-single. :/
I was kind of in that boat... but with love not sex. I'm a very loveable person and i just LOVE everyone and i care for everyone and help everyone through things and cheer them up when their down and i am the kind of person that kisses everyone on the cheek, and hugs everyone the RIGHT way. XD And people, especially exes and best friends misinterpret it as if i am IN love with them, versus just caring about their well being. So i get alot of "I love you, and i have for awhile." From my female and male bestfriends. And they get really mad when i say i dont feel the same way. I've lost ALOT of my friends because of it. :/
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Obv, you joke about sex a lot but holy hell...srsly?
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Then, last night, she's all like "I want to fuck you." And I was like "O_O Are you drinking?" And she said no. She just really wanted me or whatever. I gently as I could but firmly turned her down, and she hasn't texted me since. I'm assuming she's being butthurt.
I tell Friend B about this. Because I usually go for her for advice on how to deal with Friend A. She is unsurprised and chides me for not realizing that this is how it would go down because I 'lead people on'.
So I'm just... angry and frustrated.
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Sounds like Friend A is getting desperate (no offense to you, I swear omg) for attention, aye?
But it's funny that guys can joke around like this, but when girls do it... |: *sigh* I hope this all works itself out somehow. And thinks don't get awkward...if they haven't already.
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So I feel your pain and the frustration! *hugs x175738205736*
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BUT YAY! Awesome movies help you get over it~ Have you ever seen Quills? Waaatch.
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Awesome movies kind of don't help, considering I'm working on a feature film and that's where my problems of people-being-interested-in-me-romantically are arising! Damn the other guys for thinking me so attractive! XDDD
Also, just wiki'd the movie and MUST WATCH ZOMG.
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*pats* and I read some comments and it seems she's not texting/talking to you?
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I mean, the only thing that's stopped her so far is that she's been un-single. :/
She's coming over to my house to hang out, btw.
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