So, this is friendship, huh?

[yummycarm]

Some of you may be sympathetic to me, some of you may be sympathetic to the situation, but don't be harsh. Yesterday, I spoke about how my ex & current friend, of almost 11 years, is getting married this Saturday. Here's some background--April 30 is his wedding reception as they're having an immediate family only wedding in the moutains this

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[weatherdan]

Personally, I think you did the best thing that you could have done given the situation. Making a scene would have only made things worse; I would have taken up on the plane refund though, especially knowing how things are for you right now.

If they fought about it for two days, I'm willing to bet that he stood up for you as best that he thought he could. Who knows what she threatened.

Do I agree with what she did? Hell no. Like you said, that's something that's just not done. Even though they're about to become a couple, don't hold her actions against him. You don't have to be friends with her. :)

[ramothhe]

ugh i hate people like that. Reminds me of the plot on FboFw where anytime Elizabeth even talked to her old beau Anthony, his wife would either say something snarky or drag him away. Sheesh.

[yummycarm]

lol I never thought of it that way, but now that you say that, I totally agree. The ONE time I met her (at my wedding), we were friendly so you'd think I ran up to her man & gave him a kiss or something! Some women just need to get over themselves :)