Million Dollar Question

[yvette_star]

If you fall in love with someone...but they don't love you...and telling them won't change that fact, no matter how much you mean it ...
Do you tell them?

Comments

[sweetstar18]

Nope. I really can't think of my reasoning right now because I have been incapacitated all day, but no. It has nothing to do with me being hurt by it or anything like that, more so I feel like the guy wouldn't deserve to know. I dunno =P

[thrueyessoblue]

heh...well...i did that, once...and while i don't regret it, at all, for my sake...i feel kinda bad that i did, just for HER sake. because i know she didn't want to hear that (well, i know it NOW anyways) and maybe i just shouldn't have given her that uncomfortable information.

but, like i said...i dont' regret it. i had to say it.

[naughtyevil]

Speaking from experiance on the recipiants end, I say generally no. Not knowing your situation exactly thoguh, it could be different, but I'd say he/she would allready have some idea about your feelings, and would much rather avoid the issue. Save both you and him/her the pain of having to go through it. Hope this helped. *hugs*

[dave_girl]

being both the recopiants and the giver, it sucks both ways. The recep. view it's flattering, but if you have to see that person again it is very akward fully knowing this person really cares about you and you don't have those feelings. The giver view knwoing the feelings are not the same does hurt. I did that with Danny, I told him that I think I was falling in love with him, but shortly after I told him I realized I wasn't and I told him a few weeks later we broke up!

In answer to the million dollar question Shee...Don't do it cause you'll hurt yourself emotionally and possibly the friendship. Is it worth loosing that friendhip forever or having that person some what in your life forever? Think about that!