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zaitan

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Dec 01, 2005 10:05

I have recently had to deal with a very difficult, emotional, situation. It was made all the more worse by someone who did not display any outward indication of their emotions about the issue. I have since told them that it troubled me that they appeared very cold about it. They thought that they would not be helping if they got similarly emotional ( Read more... )

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sobrique December 1 2005, 10:30:49 UTC

OOh paid LJ!

zaitan December 1 2005, 10:34:41 UTC

Yes, I got it a while ago. I have not really used it to its full potential yet.

loraine December 1 2005, 10:33:10 UTC

I would prefer to chat to you about this in person.

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zaitan December 2 2005, 15:05:19 UTC

I will try to remember that we need to chat about this the next time I see you. Hopefully it will not be too soon.

sobrique December 1 2005, 12:10:36 UTC

Poll results hidden is good, but a summary of the 'whys' might be of interest.

zaitan December 2 2005, 15:03:20 UTC

"Getting worked up gets you hurt" and "to protect others".

wolf_shadow December 1 2005, 12:36:43 UTC

Why do you hide or suppress your emotions?

1. Depression often leads to a non-acknowledgement of emotions, not always, but it seems fairly common.
2. Personally, I find emotions very difficult to understand and therefore to deal with, so I instinctively suppress them to try and deal with them 'later'. I know this causes problems, but I cannot change who I am. Not saying more here, but do email me - use my lj address...