Children...

[zandrakaren]

can be the most annoying and trying things ever.

I swear she does half the things that bother me just to be difficult. Not even a three year old can be that stupid. It is not that hard to blow your nose! She does it every day when she's eating, drinking, and sleeping. And After I patiently explained it to her several times. "No, you're breathing in

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[maroonmd]

Meh. Sorry you're so frustrated... I can give you some advise on handling that kind of behavior, just let me know if you want it. Nose-blowing though, is actually very difficult for children to grasp... they don't usually get it until about 6yrs. I know it's annoying, and gross, but that's kids! ;-)

[zandrakaren]

Any advice would be good. I know that post was a little much, but I needed a rant. My medication does nothing for my anxiety so I've been very tense and not getting any sleep doesn't exactly put my in a good mood.
I didn't know they really couldn't do that till 6. I should really read up on stuff like this..

[maroonmd]

Oh, I know you were ranting, that's why I didn't just give you advise

[maroonmd]

& one more thing... If she tries to resort to "temper tantrums" because of your rules, don't cave!!! It's annoying, and frustrating, and LOUD.... but don't give her what she wants. Put her in her bed, or on the couch. Explain that she's not hurt so there's no reason to scream and cry... when she calms down you will be happy to talk to her about it, but not until then. Be stern, but kind... you don't want to feed her fire either. Then walk away. After a few minutes, she'll realize you're not coming back and calm down. (What's the use in having a temper tantrum, if no ones paying attention?) When she stops crying go back in and ask her if she's ready to talk. If she is, then explain nicely why you did whatever you did. The more honesty you give her, the better... even when they don't completely understand it, they'll detect that you have a good reason and are doing what's best for them