If you are not attracted to him, it might be hard for you to ever make it work even if you like him a lot.
On the other hand, sometimes I think that us abused kids are onluy 'attracted' to bad kind in which case you can't trust your sexual intuition as its 'off'. At least that is my thought on it.. it just depends on what you are looking for.
If he is mostly what you are looking for maybe you can learn to work with the space and sexuality aspects of the relationship, no relationship is perfect..
Or maybe you can gear it towards a comfortable companionship.
It seems like there are positive aspects to the relationship.. it's just am matter of figuring out whether the holes and downsides are worth continuing to invest time.
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If you are not attracted to him, it might be hard for you to ever make it work even if you like him a lot.
On the other hand, sometimes I think that us abused kids are onluy 'attracted' to bad kind in which case you can't trust your sexual intuition as its 'off'. At least that is my thought on it.. it just depends on what you are looking for.
If he is mostly what you are looking for maybe you can learn to work with the space and sexuality aspects of the relationship, no relationship is perfect..
Or maybe you can gear it towards a comfortable companionship.
It seems like there are positive aspects to the relationship.. it's just am matter of figuring out whether the holes and downsides are worth continuing to invest time.
all so complicated these relatings!
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