I need a straight girl translator please.

[zee014]

So I mentioned my straight girl issue earlier in the week. Well after over a solid nine days the girl finally text me back. Now I'm gonna play it out for you and if there are any straight girls reading this or anyone that has any idea what it means, I would be greatly appreciative of an explanation. She's still playing me, I think but I'm falling

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[sapphire_magick]

From what I read, I deduce the following:

* Baley does certainly like you but because of her situation, she's trying to ignore her feelings. In other words: she's in denial that she's gay/bi.

* From her "I hope so" - she obviously wants to get with you - but again, her situation prevents that. She's ignoring you because she wants to prove to herself that she does NOT like you and is certainly not gay for you/girls.

I think I just repeated myself in the second point. I just came home from work, okay? Lol.

[zee014]

Thanks, Ivy!

I was really hoping this was the case. And I don't doubt that she probably does like me. I mean, it's ME here. I'm so likable it's sickening, lol.

But, the hot and cold act she's pulling on me is wearing. I got too attached and it's just exhausting living in all this doubt. I'm impatient and I don't like not knowing what's going on or where I stand with people.

So I dunno. If she likes me great, but if she's unwilling to do anything about it then what does it matter, ya know?

[sapphire_magick]

If she likes me great, but if she's unwilling to do anything about it then what does it matter, ya know?

This is when I would avoid her at all costs and try and forget about my feelings. That's what I would do. To me, it's a waste of time getting more emotionally attached to her when she's not committing anything to you. A relationship needs two people to work on it, not one.

But you know yourself the best so you do what is best for you Britbrit. :)

[zee014]

I've thrown in the towel. I made an effort. I made a lot of efforts. But I'm done with that.

I suppose I still do have a little hope that she might make an effort back. But that's the only way I'd consider anything else. I'm done with her and if she doesn't like it then it's up to HER to change MY mind.

How are you, Ivy? It's been ages...

[lash_larue]

I think sapphire_magic pretty well nailed it.

She's into you and it scares her. That does not give her license to mess with you, so you have to watch out for yourself here. But maybe...

Depends how much you want her and how bad it would hurt to get rejected. I'd say wait a week and if you don't hear anything text her an invite for coffee or lunch at a very non-date like place and see if she's up for it.

Good luck,
L

[zee014]

Thanks for the advice L,

I'm not patient enough to wait a week. All I do is wait for this girl. I got too attached and it's eating away at me. She may like me, but if this is how she plans on acting on those feelings for some time then I'm not interested, lol.

[lash_larue]

Good enough, as I said, look after yourself.

Given the opportunity and permission I would be on you like white on sugar. Her loss.
L

[zee014]

Permission granted.

[zee014]

Thank you for responding!

I kinda think you're right. Sadly, I did get a little too attached and it sucks. The shitty part is just not knowing. Right now I'd settle for closure and some manners, lol.