Comments | zeechawan: Update -- Boyfriend problems still.

zeechawan

Update -- Boyfriend problems still.

Mar 01, 2009 21:36

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zeechawan March 2 2009, 16:42:07 UTC

well I didn't really overreact as much as over-analyze probably. I really didn't think it was THAT big of deal...

But yes, I am glad he's telling me how he feels at least. ^^

seroci March 2 2009, 14:49:41 UTC

I don't know about overreacting, but it sounds like you're reading a lot into things and finding things he doesn't really mean. I used to harp on Nate about the word 'sure' because it sounds so apathetic, like "sure, whatever." I've since learned not to read so much between the lines, especially with guys, because they really are not that cryptic. It's a lesson I learned from being hounded by my mom, 'cause she read too much in everything I said, and somehow by saying, "Hi," I was having a fight with someone...O.o So having it done to me taught me to not do it to someone else ( ... )

zeechawan March 2 2009, 16:40:26 UTC

Yeah, I suppose so, but it felt at the time like I was just his boredom fix or something.
But you're right it probably just felt that way since he was trying to "play it safe".

But I'm glad he said something.

But I know why I did it: I'm think I might have deeper feelings for him. Before I investigate my feelings any more, I want to be certain of his feelings for me first. So since it was over text, the only thing I could analyze were his words, so I probably over-analyzed because of that.

Anywho, yeah, I should probably not do that anymore.

Thanks, Dev

seroci March 2 2009, 17:36:04 UTC

Wow, I totally missed the "this is over text." Still, just change my word from 'call' to 'text,' he still made contact and the points are still relevant! It's also very easy to misunderstand a text's intent...the day before Valentine's Day, I was being all secretive and cryptic whenever Josh texted me 'cause I didn't want him to know what I was doing, and he called a couple times but I didn't answer 'cause he would've been able to tell where I was and I didn't want that...so based on my secretive texts, he got the impression I was mad at him, when it was totally the opposite! It's very easy to misread a text ( ... )