Yeah, I think he was very sweet and mature in agreeing to not be friends with her after that too.
Yeah, he said he felt awkward about replying to that awkward moment lol so that's why he didn't. It wasn't his fault.
Yeah, friendships can workout if you truly have NO feelings for them afterwards. But that's very hard to do when there used to be a bond between two people. If there never was a real "click", then I can understand staying friends. But if not, even if there's an urge to because you still like 'em, I don't think it's a good idea.
But to each their own. :)
Thanks, I probably did overreact a little on the way back though, but that's 'cause I got caught off-guard and not used to feeling that emotion very often. 'Sall good now though ;P
Having an ex, I can definitely understand the urge to stay friends with them, because they were once such a large part of your life. But really, I'm with you, it's a BAD IDEA. It's definitely a good thing that he's decided to not remain friends with her, and it shows he's maturing because it sounds like he's taking your feelings more into account than he did a year ago
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Yes, Spencer has talked with me thoroughly about the jealousy and clinginess. I have been working on it. I don't get jealous of every girl who talks to him so I'm not "horrible". But I've never been in a situation with ex's in general so I didn't know how to feel about it. (And yeah, I know she might've not known but like I said 'intuition' was just leaning me that way, doesn't mean it's true, I know
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Yeah, he said he felt awkward about replying to that awkward moment lol so that's why he didn't. It wasn't his fault.
Yeah, friendships can workout if you truly have NO feelings for them afterwards. But that's very hard to do when there used to be a bond between two people. If there never was a real "click", then I can understand staying friends. But if not, even if there's an urge to because you still like 'em, I don't think it's a good idea.
But to each their own. :)
Thanks, I probably did overreact a little on the way back though, but that's 'cause I got caught off-guard and not used to feeling that emotion very often.
'Sall good now though ;P
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