I talked out Half Light 5 last night. (meaning i planned out my story by talking to myself). I really like the setup. Other than that, im seriously confused and conflicted
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the answer depends on the kind of love you are talking about. in the way I see it, you can only love one person in the truely meaninful deep romantic way at a time. although, that's me, the drop-dead romantic talking. I will admit it is not difficult to have more than one crush, but be wary of mere crushes... my earlier advice was merely to attempt to steer you away from infatuation and put you on the one-way track of true-love. those two are commonly misplaced, and used interchangeably. in summary, one romatic love @ a time, more than that likely has some infatuation involved, meaning no good...
However, there are many people I love in different ways. example, I love chad like a brother, as I do with Ryan. I love drama people as a big happy family. I love fanno as a very close friend. I'm big on the love thing. so yes, in that way, it is possible to love many at a time, but I'm sure u already knew that...
u want further insight on any of this, talk to me... I'll be home tomorrow (today) most likely...
i do know thatzeldacsallSeptember 22 2004, 07:36:29 UTC
Iam living proof that #4 is possible. I want to know why this happens and how i can stop it if i see it comming again. (aka #4 is related to #3). yay love.
"You can only love one person in the truely meaninful deep romantic way at a time."
Ahh yes one of the staples of christian society is the insistance that there is one person you can be truly in love with and thats it. While that is what western christain based societies insist, many other religions do accnolage that it is possible to love more than one person at a time, and even science has proven that the human mind is capable of caring romanticly for more than one person. However, as long as we live in a society where christian values are set as "the one true set of values" the general societal view will be you can't
says who says I'm christian? one thing that offends me is me being labeled as a christian, for I am quite the opposite. I am an atheist, and proud of it! now u might not have meant to call me a christian or anything like that, and that's fine, but you're still directly associating my views of that with a religion. my view in that matter is the view of most any drop-dead romantic. I'm sure most others would say the same. a very close friend of mine has been quoted by me saying that "to me, being in love means that everyone else is out of your view. All you have is them, and all they have, hopefully, is you."
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the answer depends on the kind of love you are talking about. in the way I see it, you can only love one person in the truely meaninful deep romantic way at a time. although, that's me, the drop-dead romantic talking. I will admit it is not difficult to have more than one crush, but be wary of mere crushes... my earlier advice was merely to attempt to steer you away from infatuation and put you on the one-way track of true-love. those two are commonly misplaced, and used interchangeably. in summary, one romatic love @ a time, more than that likely has some infatuation involved, meaning no good...
However, there are many people I love in different ways. example, I love chad like a brother, as I do with Ryan. I love drama people as a big happy family. I love fanno as a very close friend. I'm big on the love thing. so yes, in that way, it is possible to love many at a time, but I'm sure u already knew that...
u want further insight on any of this, talk to me... I'll be home tomorrow (today) most likely...
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Ahh yes one of the staples of christian society is the insistance that there is one person you can be truly in love with and thats it. While that is what western christain based societies insist, many other religions do accnolage that it is possible to love more than one person at a time, and even science has proven that the human mind is capable of caring romanticly for more than one person. However, as long as we live in a society where christian values are set as "the one true set of values" the general societal view will be you can't
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I agree with this statement whole-heartedly.
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