Comments | zendej: Double standard anyone?

zendej

Double standard anyone?

Oct 24, 2006 14:45

It's weird how I always assume, when I see a pretty young girl in an expensive car, that she probably has sugar daddy, or comes from money. Rarely I surmise this about young guys. I usually think, they may look young, or they worked in Google and have lots of company shares, or that they come from money and it's not normal, i don't look down on ( Read more... )

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musicksempire October 24 2006, 22:54:25 UTC

in the town i live in currently, a young girl driving a nice car had it bought for her by her rich daddy, & a young boy driving a nice car is probably a drug dealer. this town is shit, and there's not many exceptions to the rule.

i suppose it depends on the area you live in. because in college i had plenty of girl-friends who bought themselves nice cars while still in school (yeah, hooray for student loans and working 40 hours a week while taking classes...) so i never thought twice about it while i lived there.

zendej October 26 2006, 02:18:25 UTC

so those are not exactly assumptions, but in some places, they are facts.

ed_dirt October 24 2006, 23:26:25 UTC

I would think she got it....

AS A WHORE!!!!!

zendej October 26 2006, 02:18:52 UTC

lol

nicokat October 25 2006, 00:04:44 UTC

Um. NO.

And you added me WHY??? << is what i'm thinking....

earthlingmike October 26 2006, 01:05:24 UTC

I can't imagine why anyone *wouldn't* want to add you!

zendej October 26 2006, 02:24:03 UTC

please read this entry.

corevatures October 25 2006, 02:01:18 UTC

I have a "sugar daddy."

zendej October 26 2006, 02:28:31 UTC

I accept donations. ;)
If you don't mind me asking, how did it happen?

corevatures October 26 2006, 23:08:29 UTC

I use the term loosely.
I support myself, but I am treated to expensive breakfasts or dresses or fetish books if I want them, when I want them. I could have more, but I don't feel like it.
He's immature and socially awkward. I'm not.
That's how it happened.

Maybe you wouldn't call that a sugar daddy per say (because I don't sleep with him and he doesn't support me)--but I don't know how else to describe it.

zendej October 27 2006, 01:08:53 UTC

a friend, who likes you and tries to get your attention by buying you things in desperate hope to get someday into your pants?

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emmy_roo October 25 2006, 02:46:29 UTC

I think it's fascinating how we look down on people who were given what they have instead of earning it, no matter the gender. Someone had to earn it, after all, and if some wealthy CEO wants to buy a fancy car for his young, beautiful wife, then I'm glad for both of them. We make our choices, and the trick is not to make choices you will have to live with, unhappy, for the rest of your life.

I personally would enjoy being married to some wealthy man who would take care of all my material needs, because frankly I'm much more interested in taking care of people's emotional needs. It would be a load off my mind if I didn't have to go to work! Women who are beautiful and make their way as trophy wives ought to be congratulated for their good thinking!

zendej October 26 2006, 02:33:50 UTC

I wouldn't mind it either, I guess i'm not cute enough. :)
My only problem would be constant pressure for gratitude and dependency on somebody else.

earthlingmike October 26 2006, 03:13:48 UTC

"constant pressure for gratitude and dependency on somebody else"

Which, should not be part of a true gift, but too often is the case for things like that.

zendej October 28 2006, 01:25:18 UTC

precisely