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Mar 17, 2014 13:48

I saw my brother today. I was just out shopping and I saw him and his wife. She's pregnant. I told him I was excited, and asked if I could come visit to see my nephew and help with the new baby ( Read more... )

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shh_im_talking March 17 2014, 18:54:11 UTC
You shouldn't always listen to what idiots tell you. Especially opinionated idiots who have no idea what they're talking about. I would have punched them. I hope you did. Don't get upset. Get angry that these people think they have some say in what you do with your life. As for your 'brother', I'd be ashamed of him. No brother should speak like that. It makes me wonder if you were actually adopted and given to a bunch of assholes because you're a good guy. Seems strange for you to have come from that gene pool.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 18:56:43 UTC
Part of me feels like they're right, though.

And I look like my mother and brother, so I don't think I'm adopted.

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shh_im_talking March 17 2014, 19:03:27 UTC
You should punch that part of yourself then because it's as much of an idiot as the people telling you that what you're doing is wrong.

That doesn't mean much. I look like people I'm not related to. But if it helps, a lot of us have had family that have hated us. I'm just lucky my parents were stupid enough to get drunk before getting behind the wheel of a car. I don't miss them. They were terrible people. I have a family now of my own choosing.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 19:08:47 UTC
Ah...I guess I just...I miss them. Everything was good until high school, and I thought things were good with my brother...

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wingofkyushu March 17 2014, 18:59:38 UTC
... Hikaru.

I'm so damn sorry.

They're wrong though, and I think somewhere you know that. Deep down. You're not 'playing family', we are your family. Moreso than your biological one. They're wrong. Because if they aren't then everything we've worked for, all of this, it's all a lie. And I don't feel like it is. It feels more real to me than anything else in my life. You, me, Kenya and Tia-chan... We're a family and NOTHING and NOONE will change that. No matter what people say.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 19:02:02 UTC
Senri...I want to see you. When are you coming home?

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wingofkyushu March 17 2014, 19:04:53 UTC
I want to see you too... Think you can come and pick me up? I'm out in a half hour.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 19:09:06 UTC
Yeah, I'm on my way.

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wildtechnique March 17 2014, 19:48:13 UTC
That's not right!! Why would your brother do that? Family shouldn't treat family that way even if they don't see eye to eye. So you don't need them if they're going to push you out anyway!!

And what the guy above said! Only your friends too because friends are just as important!!

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 19:51:31 UTC
Yeah...you guys are important. I don't know why my family is treating me this way. I don't know what I did wrong...

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wildtechnique March 17 2014, 19:57:34 UTC
Want me to make some baddies up with them in mind and have my good guys beat them?

But really what that guy said is important, Zai! Don't let it get you down cause with as awesome people as you have around you don't need something bringing you down like that.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 20:02:00 UTC
Yeah. You both are right. Thank you, Kin.

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speedo_star March 17 2014, 20:44:03 UTC
I'll fucking kick his sorry ass into next Monday! That's NOT how you talk to your little brother! And what in the seven bloody hells does it matter what your parents think?! My Dad could sing a song about how I never listen to them and give you ten good reasons why that makes him proud.

Hikaru I'm so sorry this has happened... But no matter what who says, you're a part of our family and that's never gonna change. Nothing can change that. Because let me tell you as a Doctor - sharing genes might be a nice bonus, but it's not a necessity, or the vital point of being a family. It's about love, respect and being stuck together through good and through bad.

I love you baby, and I'll always love you, one way or another. And nothing else matters.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 21:09:45 UTC
I love you, too, Kenya. I was out buying your cake...celebrating your birthday will make me feel better.

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speedo_star March 17 2014, 21:13:44 UTC
Then that's what we'll do. :)

And I thought you were gonna be the cake, complete with whip cream on top. ;)

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 21:21:23 UTC
Maybe I will be, later. You and Senri are so healing for my heart. You have no idea.

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o_samu_chan March 17 2014, 21:35:41 UTC
Hikaru, I know there is nothing I can say that hasn't already been said by people far more important to you. But I'll say it anyway. And I'll keep saying it until you believe it.

They aren't right about anything. Those people claiming to be your family and your friends don't know anything. So don't let them get to you. You are the happiest I've ever seen you. What you have isn't wrong. And you aren't "playing" at anything. You are making a loving family all on your own, building it up from the love and support of those who surround you now.

Senri loves you. Kenya loves you. Tia-chan loves you. I love you.

This is your family now, as it has always been. Never let anyone tell you otherwise.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 21:41:29 UTC
Thanks, Osamu. You're right. I love the family I have right now. And I love my friends, and that includes you.

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o_samu_chan March 17 2014, 21:52:04 UTC
Good. Just remember that. And remember that all of us, me included are here for you.

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zenzaip March 17 2014, 22:27:13 UTC
Yeah, I'll remember.

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