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[ziggymeg]

I talked to Aaron briefly yesterday, but it seems like he doesn't even want to talk unless I've found someplace else to live.

I could never cut someone out of my life who's been my best friend and only love for three years. I just don't understand it.

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[jasonbeast]

Eh ... I always preferred the open and amicable breakups, too, but some people can't cope with that. Hope things get easier for you very soon.

[ziggymeg]

thank you

[chicgeekgirl21]

Does he still want to live in that apartment? Did you guys rent it together?

I'm sorry about the break-up Meg. I can't imagine the pain of breaking-up with a partner of three years (I'm still naive when it comes to boyfriends). I think this is Aaron's way of dealing--some people have to cut-off all communication. I understand your feelings because I am also the kind of person who feels the need to wean myself off from someone rather than just making a clean break. Maybe being distant is a guy thing. I don't know.

Hang in there--surround yourself with friends and work and hobbies. You'll come out of this a very strong person. And you have people who care about you to help along the way.

[ziggymeg]

I can't afford to stay there on my own so he is going to stay and probably rent with a friend.

Thank you for all the kind words.