I seem to go along for a few days alright then something little will happen and I panic and then start to doubt myself and the reasoning behind our relationship pause
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It makes me so sad to read these posts. From an outsider's point of view: "The writing is on the wall". From what you have written, it seems that he wants to end the relationship but is too gutless to tell you, so just leaves you hanging. It isn't fair. Studying over Girlfriend? Sorry, that doesn't really cut it. But if he has time for his friends and not you, then he doesn't love you at all. He should want to spend all of his time with you. If he is going out with his friends, you should be there as part of the package. Otherwise he is just not serious.
I read your comment and appreciate your opinion.......I dont know what to do at times.........I want to wait for him cause he says it will be back on but then I dont know if I should wait or not. Its all confusing.......I went off at him re hanging out with the friends when he can sacrifice time with me.......he said I was right and when I said we need to set aside time in the week where we get to hang out and catch and it cant be when we are at work......as if we are starting to date again and he has agreed.....so we will give it a go and see how things progress from that. I know some people think I am stupid for waiting and at times I think I am too.......I have had ever male lie to me and cheat on me and I still expecting it to happen again but that could be just my fucked up past playing on my mind so for now I have to give him the benefit of the doubt and if he says he will spend time with me and then does then I will wait around but he fails to come thru on his promise then I will leave.
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I hope I'm wrong.
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Its all confusing.......I went off at him re hanging out with the friends when he can sacrifice time with me.......he said I was right and when I said we need to set aside time in the week where we get to hang out and catch and it cant be when we are at work......as if we are starting to date again and he has agreed.....so we will give it a go and see how things progress from that.
I know some people think I am stupid for waiting and at times I think I am too.......I have had ever male lie to me and cheat on me and I still expecting it to happen again but that could be just my fucked up past playing on my mind so for now I have to give him the benefit of the doubt and if he says he will spend time with me and then does then I will wait around but he fails to come thru on his promise then I will leave.
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