Stay strong, Sam. I know everyone has need for intimacy, but Anfey isn't going to explode without it for a few weeks. Drunken mistakes were made by him and if you feel that you can forgive him that's cool, because I reckon that if it was only flirting and he stopped it then that shows he has commitment to you. Hopefully it was only a drunken lack of judgement. I know it's hard, lovely. But you're doing really well. Stay tough, beautiful girl. I'm sure you'll be back together soon. <3
it was just a drunken chat up of a bar maid and it was a week ago and she hasnt contacted him yet..... and he said he didnt know why he did it but he has said he doesnt want to do it again. I had another chat with him tonight about it all and I asked him if its the intamacy thing he is missing and he said yes, then I asked if it was just intamacy or the intamacy we had....he said it was our intamacy. so I said I would try to forget what I have already forgiven but if he feels the need of that or is missing that I would prefer he comes to me rather than find it elsewhere..........so he said he would, he said he doesnt want to go anywhere else it is just that one drunken time. so we will see. gotta learn to be friends again before anything else.
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I know it's hard, lovely. But you're doing really well. Stay tough, beautiful girl. I'm sure you'll be back together soon. <3
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I had another chat with him tonight about it all and I asked him if its the intamacy thing he is missing and he said yes, then I asked if it was just intamacy or the intamacy we had....he said it was our intamacy. so I said I would try to forget what I have already forgiven but if he feels the need of that or is missing that I would prefer he comes to me rather than find it elsewhere..........so he said he would, he said he doesnt want to go anywhere else it is just that one drunken time. so we will see. gotta learn to be friends again before anything else.
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