A discomfort around men in general isn't healthy, even for a lesbian. I think there's a deeper issue there. I mean, I'm not saying that you have to date boys, but if you have trouble even just becoming friends with them, that could be a problem. Called sexism. Or something more complicated than that, of course. I'd bring that up in a session.
I'm not really in the same boat, but last semester I was thinking about a lot of stuff. I feel like bisexual implies that you have a somewhat equal attraction to both men and women, and it sounds like you do, too. I call myself "nonstraight." I am with a man and probably will be for the rest of my life now. But if something happened and we broke up, though I'd most likely seek out another man, I wouldn't completely write off women, as it is completely possible that I could be in a romantic relationship with another woman.
I probably will. I should clarify... I know why they make me uncomfortable, and I'm working on that. I'm not uncomfortable around them all the time, just when I first meet them. After talking with someone a bit, I'm usually fine. Working in maintenance (where there's only 7 ladies, the rest are men) has also helped.
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I'm not really in the same boat, but last semester I was thinking about a lot of stuff. I feel like bisexual implies that you have a somewhat equal attraction to both men and women, and it sounds like you do, too. I call myself "nonstraight." I am with a man and probably will be for the rest of my life now. But if something happened and we broke up, though I'd most likely seek out another man, I wouldn't completely write off women, as it is completely possible that I could be in a romantic relationship with another woman.
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