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[zorgtronn]

Sometimes I have found that it is best for everyone or a situation if I just swallow whatever emotion I am feeling, and don't say anything. This explains my abscence, in case anyone cares - and if you do care, I love you :-) **HUG**

Comments

[spastkbtrfly]

fuck man, we want to hear what you feel

[zorgtronn]

Most of the time, it's based on a conflict with someone or something - and if I don't talk about it, it will avoid other later conflicts with them. But thank you

[spastkbtrfly]

yah i know how that works, but the next time you get upset, it's just going to get added onto the pile of things you start thinking about when you're unhappy

[monkikiape]

love you too Ben.

[littlelostgrl]

it's dangerous to distribute love based on the attention and affection you recieve

[zorgtronn]

I didn't mean it literally in that sense. I love almost everyone, but respect the ones who care more.

[whisperedsighs]

Love you, too.

Buuut hey, with me, you can say whatever you want. I've always wanted you to be able to do that with me and you know that. Plus, we've never really fought. So be not afraid. And stuff. ;)

[prtctdbyslvrspn]

If it is about someone (who has LJ) then set up your friends list to block that person from the entry. Swallowing your emotions will only make their exit explosive.

[zorgtronn]

It's not about a single event or conflict - It's about many... And yea, swallowing emotions doesn't help, but it seems like a better short-term solution than getting people mad at me.