All The King's Horses And All The King's Men...

[2blackbelt]

...can't put RA back together again! So, I get it. I don't have the right to play over-protective girl-friend, or even close friend anymore. But we have talked. And we still can talk. We just can. And I am worried he is falling apart. He is saying things are (were?) completely uncharacteristic of him. I mean, he knows he can tell me anything, and I

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[citymusings]

Sometimes it's just so hard not to worry. My (former) best friend decided to go for the druggie life. He just left. I know it's not my job to worry anymore, but sometimes... *hugs* I'm sorry you're having a hard time with this.

[2blackbelt]

Wouldn't it be easier if we could all be five again and have our biggest problem be "Sally took Malibu Barbie and isn't sharing!"

Thanks for caring enough to share Clo. I appricate it. Lots! <3

[citymusings]

Oh, yes. We never appreciate things like that enough when we're young.

*hugs* My pleasure. <3

[faith_obrien]

Worry and judgment are not even in the same ballpark, honey. And while worrying without action doesn't ACTUALLY solve anything, it might not hurt to tell him your feelings. You can even throw in a "no judgment" if you feel so inclined. But I totally get what you're saying. Sometimes I think life would be a whole lot easier and much less stressful if I didn't worry about people as often as I do...

...but then I guess it would mean I wouldn't love them as much...which would make life a lot more lonely too.

It's a balancing act...but hold on. You'll manage. : )