If it's not true, then tell me what I still have... Please... because right now, I feel that you no longer need me in any way... that I don't even cast a shadow in ur direction
i know breakups are hard, but you gotta pick yourself up man and keep going. as cliche as it sounds, things happen for a reason. one day there will be a girl who will be so happy that you didnt get back together with your ex. she sounds like a great girl, im sure she is, but youre torturing yourself, and her, and that is not going to help anything. stephan, youre a great guy. you need to try another method of healing other than beating yourself up to no end. if she really doesnt pay attention to you anymore, maybe you should not pay attention to her anymore either and just find something else to do with your time than be so harsh on yourself. 10% of life are the things that happen to you, 90% of life is the way you react to them. you may have had a bad 10% lately, but youre making the rest of your life suck by not moving on. i hope this doesnt hurt your feelings, but i just want you to know that life has so much to offer. being single can help you in so many ways. you need to have an intervention and start realizing the
( ... )
Thanks Becky. Never expected to hear from you about it all, lol. I'm keepin my head up... It's just hardest to do when you're by yourself... and I've let go of her in that way. She's still the best friend I've ever had though and it's hard to be close to her in that way still and see where I used to be in someone else. I don't want to walk away from her, so it's something that I have to figure out. I'm getting there.
well walking away from someone is necessary sometimes. it may not be permenant, but temporarily necessary. i really want to see you succeed and pass this ill behavior. youre really a good guy, and everyone knows it. i dont like to read all of this stuff about you failing and stuff. just because a relationship failed does not mean that either party failed at anything. it happens. yall need to grow up and experience life anyway. i know it sounds sooo cliche to say that, but it is true. once you start living life youll realize how precious it is and you wont want to waste it anymore. so please stop being a walking dead man. wake up, eat some wheeties, and conquer life and your fears. experience challenges and triumphs. just enjoy the gift of life that we have. you dont want to go your whole life dwelling on things you cant change, and trust me it seems like this is a situation you cant change, focus on things you can change, like the world. you can do so much with a positive attitude and an appreciation for life. dont be
( ... )
Comments 9
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment