Ok, this has been dwelling obsessively on my mind for a couple days now...

[porn_into_this]

But I don't believe people who say they date FTM's or MTF's and respect them as their identified gender, but could never date the 'cis' version because they hate cock or pussy. I just don't buy it. This idea that hey, boys are really hot, but sperm just turns me off too much so I date my local transguy... Eh, seriously? If somebody would like to

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[hydr0cl0r1de]

i've thought about this before i think that a lot of people are stupid and have dumb opinions, and are not worth wasting your time on. also though i dont think people should have to justify why they are or aren't attracted to anyone, if you want to sleep with someone or dont want to sleep with them for any reason, i think thats totally fine as long as everyone involved is aware of whats going on. it doesnt really bother me that people who you've described exist, but it doesnt mean i have to be freinds with, talk to, or consent to having sex with them. my body and my gender are my business, and other poeples feelings about gender and bodies are their own business and do not have to interlap with mine.

[anonymous]

Without much time to reflect, my immediate response is to call you out on your judgment and assumptions. I fully came to realize who/what I was when I was first with a transman. Unfortunately there are few words to describe someone like me because are just referred to as "partners of." Having been with both biomen and biowomen, i have never felt fully "at home" in these relationships. I am most drawn, almost only drawn, to ftm's. This is not due to a repulsion to any specific body part. If anything it would be due to an attraction to whatever that unique thing is that those who have walked in the world as one gender/sex and transition in to another have to offer. Though its unique for everyone, its something that attracts me...i am drawn to my husband because he is a man and because he has gone through the experience of walking through the world as a queer dyke, though he would have preferred not to. This is of course way to simplified..It is these facts combined with everything else that he is...simply amazing. When you judge those

[porn_into_this]

I am interested 'anonymous' what inspired you, almost two years after this thread was posted, to 'without much time to reflect' call me out, as a cisgendered person, on my internalized hatred and transphobia?