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Jul 17, 2005 20:08

So what's the deal, does everyone hate me now or something ( Read more... )

tumor, stress, school, priorities, de-friend

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sugarbumkin July 18 2005, 03:35:32 UTC
*big hug* Oh, gosh, I'm so sorry things are so sucky for you right now, I can totally relate. The e-mail thing...I don't know what your e-mail addy is right now, can I get it again? I haven't changed mine since I got it in, oh, '96 or so, so you can always find me if you so desire. :-) grizmail@yahoo.com I miss you guys! Moving to KC in two weeks (FINALLY!!!) so I'm excited. I made a new 80's CD, do you want me to mail you a copy? Good to hear from you again!

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_lucy_ July 18 2005, 03:47:59 UTC
comfortablelucy@gmail.com

You can certainly mail me a copy. Do you still have my home address? I think of you (or your friend) everytime I go to a Starbucks...I always think that I should ask for a card or something with the location. I imagine myself sending you boxes of them at some point. Though I never actually ask...Do you know what I'm talking about? I sure hope. And I told my friends and coworkers at school the story about Jason losing his leg at the mall...I don't remember how prostetics came up, but, they did...and thus...

Sarah said you disappeared, but we both know she never really posts, anyway.

I'm *hopefully* moving to the town next to Asbury Park, actually. Isn't that funny? My *hopefully* new school is there. I got in, but I just don't have a place to live and I don't know if I'll be too sick or whatever...Fun things all around!

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sugarbumkin July 18 2005, 04:00:55 UTC
Yes, I still have your address, I shall send you a copy! Yay! And I'm not quite sure what you're talking about, but it's tickling the back of my mind like I should know. Arrgh that's frustrating! Although, as soon as I read "Starbucks" you know what I thought of? "Thank you daddy!" :-D That was awesome. And Sarah's right, I did dissapear for a while. I was (and am still a little bit) going through some dark times...my baby (Brianna) had to have heart surgery in April...that was just so hard for me, I didn't think I could share it, you know? Tons of crap has been piling on my head lately, so believe me I sympathise with you. And Asbury Park? Ahhh! Run away! If you can't find a place to live in that town, just go see if the nice folks at that odd million dollar hotel will allow you to live there. :-) Jason keeps asking if he'll ever get to meet you guys, by the way. He's already working in Kansas City, and on his last night in Denver he put an old fake foot covered in dried barbecue sauce in a box filled with packing ( ... )

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_lucy_ July 18 2005, 04:09:48 UTC
I think handicaps are hilarious! That sounds awful, doesn't it? Well, most of them. They're either entirely too cranky or happy-go-lucky-haha all the time.

Don'tcha remember one of your friends collected stuff from Starbucks or something? I don't know, maybe one of us made that up...*shifty eyes*

No wonder you disappeared...everything worked out alright, right? That's definitely scary...We love the pictures you sent a while back, by the way. They were hilarious. So Brianna is good to go now, or might she need more? It's always the worst when babies have to go through those sorts of things. They never did anything wrong.

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le_bombe July 18 2005, 04:08:53 UTC
I probably couldn't hate you if I TRIED, but I am (as I usually have been in the past) utterly shit at commenting and keeping up with my friends list. But just know that I've missed you tons, even if it might not seem evident due to my severe internet-slacking.

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_lucy_ July 18 2005, 04:11:53 UTC
Whatever, you bum. Internetslacker is my middle name, you know. I lied on that picture thingy one back. So the missing minus evidence is returned, no hard feelings ;)

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le_bombe July 18 2005, 05:54:03 UTC
1) I fully acknowledge my bum-itude.
2) You're Internetslacker-itude sounds to be warranted, especially what with the health issues going on (which I hope get better for you ASAP!).
3) Well, maybe there isn't any three! But three is still a much better number to make a list to than two.

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le_bombe July 18 2005, 06:08:48 UTC
1) Did you know you're not supposed to number a list if it doesn't have at least three items?
2) Thank you muchly. I get to go MRI-ing tomorrow (hopefully).
3) Even if I weren't under the weather, as it were, I would probably still be as fierce an internetslacker. I tend to slack during holidays. Only when I have important things to do such as school work am I a non-is.
4) I had to look up my second catch-phrase used today: "As it were." I wanted to make sure I was using that and "old hat" properly. "Old hat" was first used by William Shatner 37 years ago as Capt. Kirk on Star Trek. Pretty faboo, no?

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dudski July 18 2005, 04:50:59 UTC
Um...hey. I don't hate you. I kind of did, for a while, after you defriended me, because I was never sure if you were serious about it and I didn't want to ask in case you were.

It'd be cool to have you back on the flist if you'd have me, and if not...well, no hard feelings.

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dudski July 18 2005, 06:12:29 UTC
You know that I unfriended everyone, right? There was some sort of logic behind it, I swear. I kind of just took myself off the radar. You'll notice I have no interests either. I think that was about the jist of the mass defriendation.

I'll certainly have you. I just want to make sure the feeling is mutual and if it's not a mutual friendslisting I want to discuss it with anyone that doesn't want to friend me. I just really want to come to terms with it and see why people feel so personally damaged by it, because I honestly had no idea that anyone felt that way. I figured that things would be relatively normal upon my return...I certainly never thought I would be returning to any sort of animosity.

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_lucy_ July 18 2005, 06:16:18 UTC
Oh, poo. I didn't sign in!

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dudski July 19 2005, 01:26:35 UTC
I was actually defriended before the rest of them were, but whatevs. It's over, done with, and well in the past now, so we're fine. In fact, we are better than fine. We are FABULOUS.

*hugs*

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randomtimes July 18 2005, 09:40:25 UTC
I do have a reply to this, but my notebook broke the Internet and so I can't magically transform it from there to this computer. It was generally positive is case you are wondering.

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randomtimes July 18 2005, 10:38:53 UTC
Firstly... *hugs*

Secondly, I have to tell you something that I'm ashamed of and I honeslty never really made use of it ever, but it was dishonest of me and I shouldn't have done it. Hopefully you won't hate me for that. I won't say it here in case somebody else disapproves, you never know when Hermione might be lurking.

Thirdly, yes, you were a shit to me, but I forgave you that after about two seconds because I knew that you needed to go. I think I explained all that in an e-mail not long after. However, I'm glad that you said that now, because I don't think you realised that I was hurt for quite a while.

Fourthly, there are more important things happening now, so this is all irrelevant and in the past now.

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_lucy_ July 18 2005, 21:00:57 UTC
You always make me so nervous when you say things like that...you really, really do. I hope that like times before you're more worried about it than you should be...Anyways, I wouldn't know where to begin here, so it's just not going to be started. What an awful jumble of words...

I really knew all along that I was being horrible, it's just weird to actually say it. And all the explainations are horribly cliche and just won't really do a thing to resolve anything.

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randomtimes July 18 2005, 21:15:03 UTC
Don't be nervous, I don't think I should be worried about it, but you might think I'm a creepy stalker. Though what's new there?

Sometimes cliche is the right way. I would rather cliche than mystery and intrigue. Though the latter can be good in moderation.

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geekybeeny July 18 2005, 14:42:17 UTC
Welp, this is all news to me. Understandably, because I'm usually left out. Heh. Anywho, I wish you luck with your life, and I'm sorry about your illness, it's a shame being sick. I've friended you, if you don't want to friend me back, it's all good in the hood. You can still comment and give me good Movie's to watch and music to listen to, because you're just so good at it. ;)

Love,
Diane

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_lucy_ July 18 2005, 20:19:47 UTC
Well, then if I ever get back "in" I'll be sure to bring you :p Hmmm...music and movies, eh? Well, let me first say: You're refriended.

And I don't really know if I really have anything wrong with me...besides the hyperprolactinemia and having a cold for nearly two months straight. We'll see. I actually really just hope they find something so that they can do something about it.

I just made a post of the things I like right now...

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