my mom needs to learn to let go!

Jun 09, 2006 01:07

ok, so i'm 22 years old, i'm going away to school next semester (transfering) and my mom still treats me like i'm in high school. tonight just put the cherry on the icing (however that saying is, i'm too pissed to remember). well i was over at my friends house, it was me, kelly and christy. and its not even like they're bad people, cuz they're ( Read more... )

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topaz1988 June 12 2006, 16:08:32 UTC
If you've not already tried this...The only advicde I can give is come to her responsibally, talk to her, and even though the situation can become frusterating DO NOT YELL at all through the conversation, give her time to talk, and listen to her, reassure her that she's raised you well, and you will remember everything she's taught you. Let her know that she's sending an adult out into the world, a mature young responsible woman out (with plenty of props her way of course), and maybe she'll see things a little bit more your way.

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lostchild515 June 14 2006, 04:08:32 UTC
yeah, i tried talking to her the next day and all, and she was all like bitchy again, and then she was like ok i'll call your school and cancel your enrolment and all, and i was like yeah thats another empty threat and she was like you think thats an empty threat, i'll show you! and i was like yeah why don't you tell dad what you are about to do, and she was like leave him out of this, and i was like yeah thats what i thought empty threat. i don't know, but shes gotten a lil better, shes not being psycho, but thats cuz i talked to my dad told him what she did and all and i told him to talk to her and so he i guess talked to her and i guess it worked cuz shes not calling me at 12:45 anymore telling me to go home. but the thing that struck me the most was that the week before i was hanging out with this guy till 2 in the morning practically everynight, and she only met him once very briefly, and she knew kelly and christy since they were born. thats what struck me the most. but what can ya do, parents are parents, but shes gotten ( ... )

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