Poll?

[_pumpkin_grin_]

Once a cheater, always a cheater. True, or false?

First, in the sense of games (Monopoly, Skip Bo, Scrabble, etc) and life and taking shortcuts.
Second, in relationships.

Discuss.

Comments

[mybreathoflife]

It depends. What happened?

[_pumpkin_grin_]

I didn't get cheated on, it was just a pondering, haha.

[prtpink245]

Games...yes...I am a perfect example

Relationship...if it is a meaningless relationship...no...but an invested emotional bond...than yes...once you break that trust...you arne't oging to think anything of doing it again

[sure_lets_go]

AGAIN, i agree!

except i dont usually cheat in games, cuz i usually don't play them.

(so for commenting so much)

[menterco]

Always a cheater in games-it's like a dirty habit

And not always a cheater in relationships. People learn lessons the hard way and if you really cared and you fucked up then you learn never to fuck up again through the very agony you see in the person you love.

All's fair in love and war

[holla_a_yo_girl]

Cheating in games is something that people should grow out of but they don't always do it and that's a shame.

I dunno...maybe they won't cheat again but it's hard to build the trust back. Maybe once a wandering eye, always a looker would be more appropriate.

Don't really want to think about it anymore.

[korbinkuhlio]

cheater in games = no. one must cheat at the beginning when they aren't very good or they don't know the rules, also if one is losing one might cheat, however, once one has mastered the skills of the game thou shalt not need to cheat therefore their charade is over. furthermore, if one is winning one has no reason to cheat. so in turn, in games once a cheat always a cheat would be a bad slogan.

cheater in relationships = hmmm. if one cheats on a significant other, a specific significant other, then i would say that relationship would never work, i.e. the cheater would be likely to cheat on the cheatee again, especially if they had been taken back. but to say that if one cheated once, they would forever and always cheat on an unnamed significant other wouldn't be legit. so, if one cheats on another once, one will probably cheat on the same person again.