eeep! yes, make sure you are financially stable & married before you have a child. Trust me hun, it is not fun to be a single parent. Even if a guy is with you when you get pregnant & says he's going to be there no matter what, chances are better that he will leave vs. stay. I know that sounds harsh, but more men leave their pregnant gfs than stay with them. A baby is not a way to "keep" a man. If anything, getting pregnant too soon scares them away!
Just take your time. I'm going to be 20 when I get married & I do consider myself very young. Altho I understand I am young, this is what I want. People are getting married later and later in their lives. I would do the same, but it's different because I have Aidan. he needs a stable father figure in his life. If I didn't have Aidan, I would wait longer to get married... it's not healthy tho to have a "bf" that is less stable than a husband...see what I'm saying?
Just wait to have a child. They are a blessing, but when you're ready. I
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Thanks for the comment. I see where you are coming from and i have already thought of all of that which is why i said i am waiting! I love that you care so much though, its very kind of you.
Thanks for the comment :) You made a good point, i will always have this to look back on and smile. Brendan has done nothing but be kind and caring towards me since day one.
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eeep! yes, make sure you are financially stable & married before you have a child. Trust me hun, it is not fun to be a single parent. Even if a guy is with you when you get pregnant & says he's going to be there no matter what, chances are better that he will leave vs. stay. I know that sounds harsh, but more men leave their pregnant gfs than stay with them. A baby is not a way to "keep" a man. If anything, getting pregnant too soon scares them away!
Just take your time. I'm going to be 20 when I get married & I do consider myself very young. Altho I understand I am young, this is what I want. People are getting married later and later in their lives. I would do the same, but it's different because I have Aidan. he needs a stable father figure in his life. If I didn't have Aidan, I would wait longer to get married... it's not healthy tho to have a "bf" that is less stable than a husband...see what I'm saying?
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I didn't know you used to smoke!
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