Sounds too familiar once again. My ex spending time with the ex girlfriend that made me nuts...the one he said he didn't care for as much as he cared for me. The one he said wasn't as nice as I was. Then he had her showering in his apartment and he wondered why I was upset. Wondered why I was upset when he had a history of fcuking his ex after they were exes. Yeah. And the fact that the guy/my ex is a "Christian" doesn't mean anything I have learned. They'll pretend they are good guys, but they do such the opposite. And here "my" Christian left me feeling destroyed. I keep trying to get my ending and my "closure", but it never seems to work with him. He refuses to see he did anything wrong now. I spent all this time apologizing for nothing and he keeps saying "I'm a good guy". To think part of the reason why I wanted to date him was thinking he'd get me back into better christian ways.
I know this isn't my blog. But I am trying to tell you, I understand the frustration.
The more you talk about him, the more I want to punch him in the face. Literally. I cannot believe how much of a jerk he is, and how incredibly lucky he was to be with you for those months. What an ass. And now he is making me even angrier by giving "Christians" a reallllly bad name. Sounds like an effing excuse to me, sounds like he is trying to justify his ass-yness by putting a Christian facade on it, and I don't buy it. I know it is so much easier for me to say, but you don't need him as a friend. Sounds like he would be a pretty terrible friend anyway. I am literally in awe of much of a better person you are than he is, Ashley. Please don't lose sight of that.
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My ex spending time with the ex girlfriend that made me nuts...the one he said he didn't care for as much as he cared for me. The one he said wasn't as nice as I was.
Then he had her showering in his apartment and he wondered why I was upset. Wondered why I was upset when he had a history of fcuking his ex after they were exes.
Yeah.
And the fact that the guy/my ex is a "Christian" doesn't mean anything I have learned. They'll pretend they are good guys, but they do such the opposite. And here "my" Christian left me feeling destroyed.
I keep trying to get my ending and my "closure", but it never seems to work with him. He refuses to see he did anything wrong now. I spent all this time apologizing for nothing and he keeps saying "I'm a good guy".
To think part of the reason why I wanted to date him was thinking he'd get me back into better christian ways.
I know this isn't my blog. But I am trying to tell you, I understand the frustration.
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