Just wondering...

[abbylinn]

I'm technically not a survivor; I haven't gotten out of the situation yet. But I deal with verbal and emotional abuse from my mother, who calls me names and profanity everyday. I'm 17. But how do you deal with people who don't take your claims seriously

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[cynbluegemi]

First of all, you ARE a survivor, even if you are still in your current situation. I just joined this community today, so pardon me because I am new. I was emotionall abused, just like you, and yes, words DO hurt and it DOES make you do things that you normally wouldnt do. have you talked to your mother about this, or do you currently have a therapist? I know it sounds lame, but those two things can have some kind of effect. I think it would be wise for you to see your school counselor and maybe he or she can be some help to you.

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[omega_thief_89]

Emotional pain hurts a lot than physical pain does. If your father can't see that he is just being blind. All I can tell you is as soon as your able too get yourself out of that situation. The law can't do anything to help you if it isn't physical or sexual. (as much as I know I could be wrong.)

Hey

[spikemydrink]

I know what you're going through. I don't know how you can fix it but I know that when I was going through that it really helped me to write my feelings down through poetry or a short story. I hope things get better for you, good luck.

[eyes_of_storm]

God another one... *hugs*
First of all, you Are a survivor. You're still alive so damn it that counts!
No you aren't crazy. Verbal abuse is Still abuse. From my own experience words hurt. And they can Cause physical side effects. So Yes, it is Still abuse.
How to get out? That one I don't know. In my case God handled that one better than I could have. So getting out wasn't something I was honestly capable of. All I can give you is support and the advice to try staying away from her and the situation as much as possible. Stay with other relatives/friends/whatever you can find to stay clear of her.

Also- If your father doesn't listen, talk to a school counselor. Somebody who's job is to Take it seriously. Talk to your pastor/priest/rabbi/whatever faith you are... Whoever you can find. Tell them. Talk to somebody who will actually Help instead of blowing it off.
Just tell Somebody. Don't let it rest and don't let them force you to feel as though your words and psyche are meaningless. Keep talking until Somebody listens