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smtrebs in abusesurvivor

A letter to my abusers

Nov 23, 2004 15:42

This is to all three of you ( Read more... )

Comments 17

just_micky November 23 2004, 20:56:21 UTC

hiya hey i am really proud of you for writing this cause it is really hard yea and i am really glad you are starting to open up with your therapist.I know thats really hard as i am really tyring to open up with my counselor too.I totally agree with you to that people who have been abused do not turn in to abusers.I think thats an excuse of a lot of abusers and i dont believe them one bit.I really hope you are starting to heal a bit although i know it never ever goes away completely
take care yea
micky

jinsiew02 November 24 2004, 01:27:36 UTC

good for you!!!! :) you just continue to be strong and focus on the healing...no i do not believe in "the abused can turn into the abuser" bullshit!! people have choices...you can choose not to turn into an abuser...

xcherry_pez November 24 2004, 16:02:39 UTC

Nobody ever deserves or asks to be abused...don't ever forget that! I'm glad you are finally beginning to open up and not suffer in silence anymore.

There is no doubt in my mind that you will recover from this because you sound like such a strong person and that's what makes you a survivor =)

Much love -Pez

BRAVO sunflowergirl74 November 28 2004, 17:24:55 UTC

I am new to this site, and saw your postings...thank you for your courage and insight. I am a survivor as well, and I salute you.
BRAVO.... :-)

Re: BRAVO smtrebs November 28 2004, 17:29:18 UTC

thanks for the support, It isn't easy, but I will get there and prove to these morons, that I am better than them.

RE: A Letter To My Abusers asknetsis December 1 2004, 12:20:45 UTC

wow that was powerful. anyways, I'm new to livejournal and hope to meet people. I'm a survivor as well and hope to one day have the freedom and courage that a lot of people have.

Re: A Letter To My Abusers smtrebs December 1 2004, 12:28:09 UTC

Thanks :) it isn't easy coming face to face with the ghosts from the past, but at the same time it's no good keep burying them, they just rear their ugly head time after time. We all need to let go of the past, and hopefully with the help from psychiatrists, I can achieve that goal. Feelings buried alive, never die. This forum has helped, I hope it helps you too.