I guess everything happens for a reason...

[acarboncopy]

Forgive me for any typo's I am quite inebriated. Megan and I broke up:( I am very upset about it, we have had our problems lately and they all revolved around one person and my suspicions. Well, my suspicions were right, Megan did a DUMB ASS thing and continuously lied to me about it. I guess I am more disappointed with Megan than upset. I had

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[archaic_angel]

Oh Lisa. That is so sad.
I'm very sad and sorry to hear about that. I love you and Meg, but if things are as you say, then she is not completely ready for you & the relationship you guys could have yet. You know that we all made mistakes in our early relationships.

Just hang in there. I'm here for you, as I am sure are the rest of your friends. Don't close your heart up completely yet, she may still surprise you, but do make sure that you use reason & logic too.

xoxo

[acarboncopy]

Oh wise one, I know you are right..as always. I haven't given up on Megan but if I know Megan she has already given up on us because she feels that she hurt me to deeply to be with me. As for me I love her enough to put it aside and work things through but I also know that I am not comfortable with the situation and the more and more I think about it the more I want the other woman out of my life if Meg and I did get back together, but Meg would not do that she feels that friends last forever and she would never choose between her and I...I just wish I could make her understand that once they crossed that boundary that they became more than friends in my eyes. Asking Megan to choose is just like telling her that I never want to speak with her again. I am so confused and hurt I don't know what to do...help me if you can?

[archaic_angel]

I am always here for you. As your friend, I will do all that I can to help you no matter your choices.

[acarboncopy]

Awww...you are the best wifey a girl could ever ask for!