The best advice I have for you is to take it one day at a time. Cry when you need to, but remember to smile sometimes too. Trust me, I know that it feels like you're dying inside, and every time you turn around there's another memory smacking you in the face, but there will come a time where the memories will make you smile instead of cry. I promise. <3
thank you....allmostangelNovember 4 2004, 06:24:45 UTC
i was hoping that you would reply to this knowing that you have recently gone through heartbreak yourself...
i guess it's extremely hard for me because i'm not the type to give up, but, in the same instance i don't know what to do or what to say to get through to him. i also guess another reason why it's so hard is because i never saw it coming, i thought he was happy. the kicker is, he wasn't happy here and he's still not happy even with being gone. i just don't know what to do. i'm worried about him, as well as us.
thank you too...allmostangelNovember 4 2004, 06:28:05 UTC
i'm trying the best that i can, but it's extrememly hard. we got this apartment together, so we could be together more. and everywhere i look all i see is him. when i look at my daughter all i see is how happy he made her. when i do anything, some kind of thought of him comes to mind. this is what is driving me nuts the most. i'm trying to make this place jayde's and mine, but it's hard when all you can do is think of this happened here, or that happened there, or he did this there or whatnot...
i know that the only thing that can mend a broken heart is time, but it's just hanging in there until that happens which scares me...i actually gave this one my all
Re: thank you too...horedNovember 4 2004, 08:17:43 UTC
Try little things to make the place more Jayde's and yours... First of all, remove all of his pictures and all of his things if you haven't already. I don't suggest throwing them away because at some point in time after your heart has healed, you may want to look at them again, but remove them from your sight. Then do things like replace a favorite wall hanging of his with a new one that you and Jayde pick out together, have her draw you special pictures and put them on the fridge, go together and pick out a plant to hang in the window, buy a new bedspread and sheets. The more little things like that you do, the more often you'll look around the house and be reminded of you and Jayde rather than him. <3
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i guess it's extremely hard for me because i'm not the type to give up, but, in the same instance i don't know what to do or what to say to get through to him. i also guess another reason why it's so hard is because i never saw it coming, i thought he was happy. the kicker is, he wasn't happy here and he's still not happy even with being gone. i just don't know what to do. i'm worried about him, as well as us.
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i know that the only thing that can mend a broken heart is time, but it's just hanging in there until that happens which scares me...i actually gave this one my all
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