wow...

[allmostangel]

well i've come to the conclusion that i will no longer plan anything for anyone but me...reading journals and journal comments have brought me to the conclusion that there were some people that just weren't there as "friends"...i thought that we all had about the same notion as to what a friend is...now i see differently

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[learae]

Fuck it, you did great and I had fun... who cares what people think.

[whoringangel]

heh.. I hope you dont mean me. And if not, well said :)

[patticakes73]

As much as you love these people, I wouldn't do it again. I paid 150 large dollars for the hotel room at my birthday thing, and not one person who slept there gave me ANY money. Granted, I had a great time, and it was money well spent, but it's the principle of the whole thing.

I love everyone, I really do. But it seems we're all in the same boat when it comes to money, that's why before when I used to go out and go to these things, I always went with a "everyone's on thier own" kinda attitude. If you want to, and can afford to go...go, if you can't, don't expect people to pick up your tab all night.

Of course, I don't really know what the hell I'm rambling about, since I don't know what happened but, I thought I'd contribute anyways :oP

[midnight_thorne]

ya know i'm not going to sit and explain every detail of my journal, my opinion is how i feel. that's that. however there was never any blame put on any one person. there was a chain of events and a contribution brought to you by many people that led to my OPINION of the night. i have the right to hold my opinion, as do you. however, because of that do NOT classify me as blamming you or as a bad "friend" because of it. however, if that is your choice though i won't and don't agree with it, i'll respect it just the same.

as far as what patti said..in madison i felt bad having for having to ask for money from my friends to celebrate my night, which is why i asked for 5 bux. i felt bad having to ask for even that. i came to the very same conclusion she did in not doing something like that. if you want to come, make your own reservations, get your own room. problem solved. done.

[allmostangel]

lol dana..the most funny thing about this comment is the fact that i didn't name any names...so i suppose take it how you want to..but like you said yourself, i have the right to my opinion ;)

Heh

[learae]

I don't blame you for wanting to explain your journal, you shouldn't have too...

If you had fun that night, great... if you didn't then thats your own problem. I had fun and honestly if you didn't I don't care...
I know that sounds bitchy but thats the same attitude you all should have. It's nobody fault that you didn't have fun but your own.

Re: Heh

[allmostangel]

was this for me or dana? lol im sooooooooooo confused :((

Re: Heh

[learae]

not you!

Re: Heh

[allmostangel]

ok..good..cuz despite the harsheness of reality that seemed to hit me at the right moment *rolls eyes*, i still had a kick ass time..and i wouldn't take it back for anything...