I cam across your judgeme profile, and linked to your LJ from there. Decided I simply had to comment because your entry hit a chord with me.
Aw geez, I know what you mean. I haven't told a lot of my friends that I'm bisexual yet, but a couple know. Some have started ignoring me because they don't want me to hit on them. My parents don't know, and I doubt I'll ever tell them. I don't think I could stand disappointing them that much.
You say your family has basically disowned you? Meh..that's horrible. How long ago did they find out though? I mean, perhaps they're just...shocked. Quite shocked..and don't know how to go about reacting. Family is supposed to be a unit of unconditional love [supposed to be], hopefully they'll realize you're still you. I'm sure in time they'll be a lot better, even if they're uncomfortable about it. No doubt they still love you, they're just probably really confused right now too.
had no idea that you were bisexual.. well it's ok.. but i can understand what you mean by your family disowning you because your different.. my family did that to me because i was getting really into my music and doing my hair all crazy and dressing a lot differently(still do though..).. yeah i got a lot of bad looks from my family and my parents were getting really upset with me so i decided to tone it down.. they still look at me bad though.. i hate that because family is soposed to be there for you and accept who you are.. don't worry Nick.. i have faith in you.. youll be fine.. :D
One of my friends came out that he was bi ... and he's basically been disowned - I mean he'd never hit on them before because otherwise they would've known that he was as he is ... Other people (mostly guys) Say it's fine for girls to be bi - but not guys ... thats just stupid - everyone is as they are ... who are we to argue?
Be who you and and people will either love or hate you for it - the peopel who hate you for it aren't worth the shit that runs down their knees
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Aw geez, I know what you mean. I haven't told a lot of my friends that I'm bisexual yet, but a couple know. Some have started ignoring me because they don't want me to hit on them. My parents don't know, and I doubt I'll ever tell them. I don't think I could stand disappointing them that much.
You say your family has basically disowned you? Meh..that's horrible. How long ago did they find out though? I mean, perhaps they're just...shocked. Quite shocked..and don't know how to go about reacting. Family is supposed to be a unit of unconditional love [supposed to be], hopefully they'll realize you're still you. I'm sure in time they'll be a lot better, even if they're uncomfortable about it. No doubt they still love you, they're just probably really confused right now too.
I hope things work out for you..
Best wishes <3
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One of my friends came out that he was bi ... and he's basically been disowned - I mean he'd never hit on them before because otherwise they would've known that he was as he is ... Other people (mostly guys) Say it's fine for girls to be bi - but not guys ... thats just stupid - everyone is as they are ... who are we to argue?
Be who you and and people will either love or hate you for it - the peopel who hate you for it aren't worth the shit that runs down their knees
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