I'm not really sure what to say to this. Other than, of course a cynic won't let themselves be happy.. because then, what would they have to be cynical about? I don't really sympathize, nor do I agree.. you could make yourself happy if you worked for it. Everyone has the ability to be happy.
Bitterness is just a fallback for people who can't or won't work for it.
It's always easier to blame other people. "Oh, she's so horrible, she broke my heart."... things like that. Well.. do people ever ask her side of it? No. They're busy sympathizing with people who find it easier to blame their bitterness and unhappiness on others... This isn't directed at you, just an example. Don't take it to heart.
But think about it. What WOULD make you happy? Do you know?
It's actually a long combined list of things that's eating me with bitterness. I know what it is that would more than likely make me happy, but no matter what I do I'm not allowed to have it. Which is partially the reason bitterness is getting to me.
Before you make assumptions, this doesn't partain to you nor is it about you, but I think you know who it does/is about for the most part. And I'm not taking it to heart... I'm just becoming more and more bitter over things that are happening around me and other things that have happened over the past few years.
On an unrelated note, you also surprise me when you read my blog, from what I know of or assume, you never check LJ.
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Other than, of course a cynic won't let themselves be happy.. because then, what would they have to be cynical about?
I don't really sympathize, nor do I agree.. you could make yourself happy if you worked for it. Everyone has the ability to be happy.
Bitterness is just a fallback for people who can't or won't work for it.
It's always easier to blame other people. "Oh, she's so horrible, she broke my heart."... things like that. Well.. do people ever ask her side of it? No. They're busy sympathizing with people who find it easier to blame their bitterness and unhappiness on others...
This isn't directed at you, just an example. Don't take it to heart.
But think about it. What WOULD make you happy?
Do you know?
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Before you make assumptions, this doesn't partain to you nor is it about you, but I think you know who it does/is about for the most part. And I'm not taking it to heart... I'm just becoming more and more bitter over things that are happening around me and other things that have happened over the past few years.
On an unrelated note, you also surprise me when you read my blog, from what I know of or assume, you never check LJ.
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