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amberfairy

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Dec 17, 2006 20:35

i was somewhat prepared for "i love you so much, but we need some time a part."

i never expected "i'm just not in love with you anymore."

i don't know how to deal with this.

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eternallyours December 18 2006, 04:45:54 UTC

Okay, I want you to know that because he said that, it doesn't have anything to do with you as a person. It just has to do with being compatible and having a connection with the other person. It seems that a lot of people have that problem in relationships, where one person just doesn't feel the same anymore ( ... )

amberfairy December 24 2006, 16:24:41 UTC

thank you so much hun. i know it's not my fault i'm just... not ready to believe we weren't meant to be. right now i'm basically working under the assumption that it's MORE likely we'll end up together if we spend time apart NOW than if we just ignore our problems and stay together.

you know i appreciate your experience and input and love and good thoughts and especially your tangents. i hope i see you online some time soon so i get a chance to talk your ear (er.. eye?) off.

now more than ever i wish you'd come visit me. a hug would be so nice.

amberfairy December 24 2006, 16:35:15 UTC

o, and merry merry christmas sweets

sno_white89 December 24 2006, 09:17:07 UTC

the oh so familiar "i just don't love you anymore ( ... )

amberfairy December 24 2006, 16:34:50 UTC

i cannot express how thrilled i am to hear you are feeling so much better. i can see you came out the other end of this misery not only alive but so much wiser and i am so fucking proud of you. you are absolutely right about most everything you said (except for the part where you were concerned you were rubbing your happiness in my face... how incredibly silly of you), particularly the bit about living each day at a time.

i must say it's a little much to ask me not to let this eat me up inside/break my spirit/take over my life... but you've just made it a tad easier by simply typing a few words and i can't deny that is inspiring.

thank you so much for trying to be there for me, especially now when i feel so completely alone. merry merry christmas, dear. it would be nice to actually meet you as we have attempted to plan a handful of times... good hugs are few and far between these days.