riding the topic swerve wavewilloMarch 10 2009, 20:45:55 UTC
I was just wondering the same as slutdiary. How goes things on transforming your persona into that of a nonsmoker's?
How does this sound, Em -- if you would like to set up goals and work towards rewards, I'd be happy to don my Top persona and set up play dates. I'm sure we can come up with some privacy somewhere; I noticed that perk when I mentioned a flogger. ;)
I think a great reward of reaching no cigs would be going to the centre for a public scene; I have the tools to make it a fun evening.
There has always been something in you that brings out the Training Miss in me. I often daydream of what it would have been like to bring you into the household back when you were with M. You make a lovely pet, m'dear. :)
Re: So, when do you become a stalker?ambivalencyMarch 11 2009, 07:51:13 UTC
Well, stalking implies some sort of intent. I don't want to be anywhere near them, want them to know I'm looking at them, or leave any sort of note saying that "Hey I looked at your profile today".
In fact, for some of them, if I saw them on the street I'd turn around and run.
I think stalking would be posting their information and clamouring about the crap they pulled and inciting others to terrorize them, or leaving comments on their pages, or any other overt act that isn't available to anyone else on the net.
I'm not a stalker. Unless you WANT to be stalked. (then I attack with a squirt gun!)
I don't know that there is such thing as "fault". Relationships are messy. People are confused. People do things they don't understand, or do things that they believe will have one set of consequences, and then discover actually have another.
There ARE assholes out there who want nothing more than to satisfy THEIR needs at the cost of others. These people do this with FULL knowledge of what they are doing.
But there are many, many, more people out there who don't know what they are doing is damaging, who don't know that their actions have severe negative consequences. That's life, that's learning, and hopefully these men have looked back and said "you know, what I did was wrong. I will strive to not do those things in the future."
You're one of the good ones, Brent. You learn. You adapt (as much as you can). You analyze a situation or person. I've always respected that of you. I mean this with all the sincerity in the world.
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How goes the smoking thing?
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How does this sound, Em -- if you would like to set up goals and work towards rewards, I'd be happy to don my Top persona and set up play dates. I'm sure we can come up with some privacy somewhere; I noticed that perk when I mentioned a flogger. ;)
I think a great reward of reaching no cigs would be going to the centre for a public scene; I have the tools to make it a fun evening.
There has always been something in you that brings out the Training Miss in me. I often daydream of what it would have been like to bring you into the household back when you were with M. You make a lovely pet, m'dear. :)
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In fact, for some of them, if I saw them on the street I'd turn around and run.
I think stalking would be posting their information and clamouring about the crap they pulled and inciting others to terrorize them, or leaving comments on their pages, or any other overt act that isn't available to anyone else on the net.
I'm not a stalker. Unless you WANT to be stalked. (then I attack with a squirt gun!)
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We all do our best.
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There ARE assholes out there who want nothing more than to satisfy THEIR needs at the cost of others. These people do this with FULL knowledge of what they are doing.
But there are many, many, more people out there who don't know what they are doing is damaging, who don't know that their actions have severe negative consequences. That's life, that's learning, and hopefully these men have looked back and said "you know, what I did was wrong. I will strive to not do those things in the future."
It's the only way I sleep at night.
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