from now on my journal will be "friends only".
is there a way to change the security settings so that every entry i post is automatically friends only, or do i have to select "friends only" from the drop down menu everytime i post a new entry?

( pictures from my weekend retreat )

[My Friendster horoscope ( Read more... )

so many comments on the last post with the pictures of me and tella. thanks for all the compliments!!

halloween costume pictures to come soon--i promise. i'm just waiting for various friends to send me the pics that were taken with their cameras, and i'm going to take some tonight at the bar. in the meantime ::drumroll:: current pictures of tella and i from tuesday night.


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4:26
finally home from the bar.
tonight's events were rated NC-17.
don't even have the energy to talk about it.
when i wake up i might feel inspired though.
if i can remember everything.
ow! my head!

"The L Word" Season 2 is officially released on DVD today!!!!!!

a message to the people in my life, near and far: just because you were burned by love doesn't mean you should hide your heart forever. it will only make you emotionally stoic, and unavailable--no better than the person who burned you in the first place. you should never feel ashamed for loving someone; it is only shameful if you don't love ( Read more... )

i realize now that i should have put my last entry under a cut. it was entirely too long. sorry folks ( Read more... )

1. Your name spelled backwards?
refinnej

2. Where were your parents born?
my mom was born in milwaukee, my dad in lodi (both in wisconsin)

3. What is the last thing you downloaded onto your computer?
some wmv clips of bette and tina from "the L word"--yes i'm that obsessed. shuddup ( Read more... )