Comments | angaelboi: Unhappy Anniversary

angaelboi

Unhappy Anniversary

May 17, 2006 08:06

Joseph and I are about to hit eight months together, and it's going off with a bang. One stupid foul-up and he can give you the most heartless, heart-rending reactions that any human being has ever given another. I'm not sure if I deserve it or not. I haven't been to bed yet so I couldn't say with any level of coherence. Unfortunately, I lost ( Read more... )

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chulo908 May 17 2006, 14:13:16 UTC

The pair of ya'z sound like two peas in a pod.

angaelboi May 17 2006, 19:32:37 UTC

Heh, we iz Walty-pie. I understand things are going well for you, though I've not kept entirely up with things for the past many months. I was really happy to hear! I'd like to think things are going just as well for us because it seems like we really get a kick out of each other. Just hit a big bump last night and I think I hit my head on the ceiling in the process.

chulo908 May 17 2006, 19:56:07 UTC

well...I think things between 'us' are just fine. I mean, I like ya just fine is all. Things are tolerable. Never really satisfied...but who is? Good luck with the menz...fickle bunch is they not?

deltafalcon May 17 2006, 15:22:16 UTC

First: I would like to eventually repair our friendship.
Second: If you're still having problems with this, IM me some time. Don't take this the wrong way: I have a decent idea how he's probably feeling because you did the same to me a few times.
Third: I wish you luck.

angaelboi May 17 2006, 19:27:06 UTC

Not really. You weren't in the same guild and playing WoW right beside me. That's why it's weird because he hangs out with a lot of the same people to pass the time right next to me and he's within arm's reach... and I do reach.

silverfrost424 May 17 2006, 16:32:51 UTC

Oh Lindsey, that's the sweetest and saddest thing I've read on the ole Eljay in a while. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Trust me, I know what you're going through, only I've been on the other side of the spectrum. Attention is so dear in a relationship, especially one in which the two parties rarely get to see one another. And you never know if you're giving or receiving "enough." But what is "enough"? What you want? What the other person wants? What I suggest is a sincere, honest, heart-felt, heart-warming talking to. Ask him what it is that he wants and tell him what it is that you want. Don't beat around the bush and stay on topic (this is advice I wish I could follow). But if he means as much to you as you express, and I'm sure he does, then you'll find the right words to say and he'll find the right way to interpret them. I can't tell you how I've felt at times about my own relationship and the occasional lack of communication. Communication is so key, because every word carries weight. The things your friends can say ( ... )

angaelboi May 17 2006, 19:28:36 UTC

Talking about what he wants ex-post facto doesn't help the fact that he wakes up angry as hell as me. We've talked about it before and I thought I'd struck a nice balance. He wasn't upset about where things were at all yesterday. He was when he woke up this morning. Simple mistake means disasterous consequences.