"If a girl goes down on me, she is instantly 5x hotter"I dunno... that one just rubs me the wrong way (and that was probably the wrong way to put that in a post covering this subject :D) I read this through, and got a similar vibe as kasmodia.. it's all about servicing the guy :( Most of the guys comments are about how it feels for them... I guess if you're just venting, it makes sense, but it doesn't make for a complete view of the situation
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Well, that was a quote from one of my Guy friends, not something I SAID... just FYI, it was more the basis of discussion.
And I am kind of confused on why everyone is confused about my post. The whole post is about oral on guys. I am not talking really about mutual sexual acts unless you are like me and enjoy Oral as much as a guy does. If you don't feel that way, then none of this really applies to you. Its just my opinion on the empowerment of girls and taking control and being okay to say; hey! I happen to like this sorta thing, but I feel weird admitting it.
Thats really all this was about.
I agree it should be a mutual thing, I just think there is a large group of females out there who may not completely understand the pros to Oral... and I just thought I'd share my uneducated opinion...
I didn't think it was something you had said... more just a comment on how it can be perceived.
I don't think people are confused about your post... it's more a discussion of the topic (and not one many people, especially female, bring up.) You made your case for, and nobody is knocking you for it, BTW.... others are just stating their position/opinion, is all. It's nice to see a frank discussion... it's not something that needs to be denied, or only whispered about. Kudos to you for the post :)
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And I am kind of confused on why everyone is confused about my post. The whole post is about oral on guys. I am not talking really about mutual sexual acts unless you are like me and enjoy Oral as much as a guy does. If you don't feel that way, then none of this really applies to you. Its just my opinion on the empowerment of girls and taking control and being okay to say; hey! I happen to like this sorta thing, but I feel weird admitting it.
Thats really all this was about.
I agree it should be a mutual thing, I just think there is a large group of females out there who may not completely understand the pros to Oral... and I just thought I'd share my uneducated opinion...
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I don't think people are confused about your post... it's more a discussion of the topic (and not one many people, especially female, bring up.) You made your case for, and nobody is knocking you for it, BTW.... others are just stating their position/opinion, is all. It's nice to see a frank discussion... it's not something that needs to be denied, or only whispered about. Kudos to you for the post :)
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