(Untitled)

May 21, 2006 19:14


My ex boyfriend has is going to have a new girlfriend, this is a good thing I guess. Friendships change when people start going out with new people, it brings in others who normally wouldn’t hang around each other, it also means that time has to be spread even thinner between the people and this is where the problem begins. My ex boyfriend, Mark, ( Read more... )

thoughts

Leave a comment

Comments 9

dandy_illusions May 21 2006, 09:42:38 UTC
Oh sweety... you poor thing! who is marks soon to be girlfriend? do I know her?

Reply

anogy May 21 2006, 12:30:42 UTC
A girl who was in year 12 with me last year, her name is Jess and used to 'go out' with Dean.
It's a good thing and I'm glad his moved on I just don't want to be alone

Reply

dandy_illusions May 21 2006, 13:00:49 UTC
jess!!! Jess Knight? Oh man, so did NOT see that happening.

Reply


Sappy rant in return. yeech May 21 2006, 11:01:34 UTC
Disclaimer: This is not an attack on you. I may get off track and it might sound like one, but it's not.

You haven't had a partner outside our group. The basic group always included Mark, so he's always been there. You haven't had to divide your time so you have 'group' time and 'partner' time. The two have always been combained.

None of us are leaving you, we're just trying to find a balance between group and partners.

Reply

Re: Sappy rant in return. dandy_illusions May 21 2006, 13:03:22 UTC
yeah thats bloody hard. i dont have a partner but i have two groups. two that dont really mix. so its like having a partner just not. You both get it.. its a big pie which needs to fit Uni/Work/You Guys/Other Group/Matt/KALI!!!/Homework/Everything Else

It's really hard for all of us to adjust to this new life, this new world, and it is taking a while, and I'm not doing it well, but you know, we all will eventually get teh hang of it... I hope.

Reply

Re: Sappy rant in return. anogy May 21 2006, 13:22:57 UTC
I enevy you for having two groups, it may seem hard but you know your always got where you turn.

Reply


iam_notforsale May 22 2006, 06:02:51 UTC
it may not be a case of people "leaving" you. For me, i didn't leave - i just didn't come to you anymore. And, really, you didn't come to me. you may feel like the victim - but in reality, it was actually mutual.

Reply


mr_sifter May 23 2006, 04:29:30 UTC
mmm, i dont really accept excuses for 'lack of time' people .. but Mark's not really a lack of time kinda guy, so i reckon you'll be alriiiight :)

describe this Jess girl. i KNOW i met her.. but i cant really remember

- we talk back!! lj is THE place for sappy rants, no doubt/!
look out for mine coming soon haha

Reply


mephiston79 May 24 2006, 04:40:05 UTC
I have a ton of groups..... one asset to not knowing who you are or what your life is about.... you can find all kinds of folks. You can have some of mine....

Reply


Leave a comment

Up