I really hate the fact that you are stereotypical of girls in the sense that just because some go after the assholes, you think they all do. And who is a guy to say that girls will say they're looking for a nice guy but really arent? A matter of factly..none of the guys I've gone out with were assholes. And half of them werent even goodlooking. I was friends with them first and I liked them for their personality. We're really not as stupid as you think. No ones perfect so why would I even bother wasting my time looking for the perfect guy? You make someone perfect by loving them for their imperfections. I'm not saying you're wrong for agreeing with that about the majority of the female population because for the most part you're right. However, once again, not everyone is like that. I'm not. And I know theres more girls out there. I'm not saying looks wont matter in the situation but there ARE a lot of people who look past the looks in search of the real beauty inside another person
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Dave I hate when you say shit like this. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places, as well. Have you ever stopped to analyze yourself? If you're going nowhere with a certain girl, then move on. :/ And if other girls aren't working out, then maybe you're looking in the wrong places. There's nothing wrong for you except for your obsession with finding love...it doesn't happen so easily. :/ But I'm sure you'll find it.
Try to not speak generally. Because when you do that you just slap a huge big sign on something: Sterotype.
Personally, I don't like being sterotyped. I dated one asshole for a long big waste of time. There wasn't a 'nice' guy around for me to talk to about my problems with this guy. In fact, the nice dude I would have talked to about this jerkbag took off because I had a boyfriend. So how nice was he?
You know what else? When another different 'nice' guy showed up on the scene at the end of that relationship, when I was on the brink of going back out with him and told me the shit he was doing behind my back, do you know what happened? I didn't go back. I started dating the nice guy three months later.
So yeah, take your general assumptions and your sterotypes about girls and shove it.
Shit someones pissed, sorry kelly, i dont mean all girls. I mean i have like 4-5 people i know who arnt like that that im friends with, you included, but you know girls i meet and stuff..the more i encounter the more hope i loose..i need to add disclaimers to these things.
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Maybe you're looking in the wrong places, as well. Have you ever stopped to analyze yourself? If you're going nowhere with a certain girl, then move on. :/ And if other girls aren't working out, then maybe you're looking in the wrong places. There's nothing wrong for you except for your obsession with finding love...it doesn't happen so easily. :/ But I'm sure you'll find it.
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Personally, I don't like being sterotyped. I dated one asshole for a long big waste of time. There wasn't a 'nice' guy around for me to talk to about my problems with this guy. In fact, the nice dude I would have talked to about this jerkbag took off because I had a boyfriend. So how nice was he?
You know what else? When another different 'nice' guy showed up on the scene at the end of that relationship, when I was on the brink of going back out with him and told me the shit he was doing behind my back, do you know what happened? I didn't go back. I started dating the nice guy three months later.
So yeah, take your general assumptions and your sterotypes about girls and shove it.
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