All the Fish in the Sea

[arctic_flame]

Thursday, through an Indian meetup event, I started talking to a guy

Comments

[co_techie]

I know I should be all serious and stuff, but "I just kicked him and took off running towards my car" just made me so very proud of you. GO YOU! Giving someone a chance to continue a date does not mean wanting to take them to bed the very next minute. What a royal jerk!

[arctic_flame]

I know. I'm glad I left too. I'm just disappointed and shaken up by it; it could have been a bad situation if I had stayed. Everything seemed to be going well and we had great chemistry when we first met (liked all the same movies, things to do, etc.) and had some great phone conversations and I was willing to overlook some of the things that bothered me about him but I guess you never know. I guess anyone can be pleasing at first and then they show their true colors. I seem to be attracting all the wrong people in my life and I know it takes a few bad ones to find the right one but I've been through enough bad ones. I think Dinesha is right - my Mr. Right is stuck in traffic somewhere.

[co_techie]

Which reminds me of that time in NJ years ago when I unintentionally got myself a date at the gas station ... with a married man at that.

[djpekky]

I kind of went through the same recently. It sucks!

Peace!

Pekky

[papavic]

I think maybe your Mr. Right took off with my Ms. Left

[premkudva]

My God! What a dude. Especially the fuck buddy part. Maybe I am too far away, but I have never heard that term at all.

Anyway good thing is you are okay!

[arctic_flame]

I have. A "fuck buddy" is a casual sex partner that you call only for sex and no other emotional attachment. I find it hard to believe that all Indian women have someone like that maybe because I'm an Indian woman and I want to believe that we're all wholesome and good. I know that we're not all that wholesome and good and maybe some women are like that, but EVERY woman he's met..that's hard to believe. Oh well. Glad to be safe and good to hear from you. Hope all is well.

[premkudva]

> but EVERY woman he's met..that's hard to believe.

I think like all Indian men [I am generalising here] he generalises everything;-)

Yeah everything is fine over here. Our girls are having their exams and are eagerly awaiting the long vacation.

[aldehyde]

ugh he sounds like a douchebag of the highest order. i think you definitely did the right thing!

[pinak]

...but I just kicked him...
I hope you aimed for the nuts. :)

[arctic_flame]

It was nearby. :) There's a chance I might still run into this guy. We're in the same group. :(