Date books, and some people talk about the nature premise that men pursue women.

But oftentimes, women want to pursue men.  However, usually when women do, they are pursuing "emotionally unavailable men" or species of the sort.

However, they have to PRETEND to be emotionally unavailable in order to catch a man... because men enjoy the thrill.

It is ( Read more... )

  Yesterday, at the Virayoga Studio,  I went to a workshop called Drag the Dark Into the Light.  I wanted to go because I am a big fan of the theory of the human shadow, proposed by Carl Gustav Jung, among others.  In it, Jung said that we should acknowledge the dark side of ourselves and channeling it, for ignoring the darkness in us makes its ( Read more... )

My computer just died.  It died yesterday while I was talking to my best friend and right now I am updating from a cybercafe.  I think that the fundamental reason I prefer to fix my motherboard has to do with the things I don't want to lose ( Read more... )

I am trying to reconnect with my journal ( Read more... )

1)  The attonishing ammount of snow today is covering the astonishing amount of dirty snow a few weeks ago.  At least (and at least in Jackson Heights) there was a decent clean-up of the streets, but the side-walks looked like a deep-dish pizza, without the veggies and sauce ( Read more... )

If any of these fellows was dating my mother (Disclaimer: I love Hugh and I think he is good to and for my mum, and gets along with us mom's children just fine), I would be proud!

Amitabh Bachchan:

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WARNING: Cross-posted with pekkywriter

There are a few lucky souls like my sister and brother in law, who have found spacious apartments in Harlem.  But one of my reasons not to move from Queens is that I don't have to make this kind of compromises!  I have a rather spacious studio I am happy to live in!

Courtesy of sandybale

( 25 random q's )

I always come with these wonderful things I dream of updating about.  Especially these days when 1) I am more upbeat; 2) I have had personal victories that I ESPECIALLY want to share with those who have read my blog for years (sorry general public reading me in FB, etc.  These are not public).  3)  I am discovering things in NY ( Read more... )

In the NYC fauna, taxi drivers are a typical species, but after two years of occasionally riding taxies, I can conclude that there are some particular sub-species:

-The Jeckyll and Hydes:  They start being nice but if you make a mistake they behave like assholes.  These generally can be found in the car services, and fortunately they see, a ( Read more... )