My mom

[arebella]

My mom's going on her final journey very soon and I'm preparing to carry out her final wishes.  For the last several years, she's suffered from dementia, brought on by a series of small strokes which robbed her of her memory, but not her spirit.  She's lived in a nursing home in my home town, the place where she lived her entire life, surrounded by

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[ladyrowansplace]

Oh, Judy, I am so sorry for you - although your Mom will be free and young and whole again, the pain for the ones she leaves behind is just starting.

I wish there were things that could be said that would ease what I know is coming, but there are none.

I know how glad I am that my Mom is free now, and how much I miss her still, even almost 2 years down the road.

My only advice is this - give her not only what she wanted, but make sure to give yourself what you need to get through this time.

You and John will be in my prayers, as always.

Ro

[valeriejoy]

I'm keeping you and your loved ones in my thoughts.

May your mother's journey to the other side be filled with light and love.

Take care of yourself and much love back to you...

[sahbra]

Oh Judy, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Your mom will live on in your heart and memory. And in the memory of all of those who knew and loved her. My thoughts and prayers are with you, John, and your mom. Much love to you all. And may your mom pass through the veil peacefully when she goes. If you need me, I'm here. If you want to talk, cry, or reminisce... you know where to find me.

Love you lots!

[kendaa]

Dearest Judy, I wish I had words to offer you at this time that would give you some small comfort. I wish I was there to give you a hug full of love and comfort. I wish I could make this time somehow easier for you. With all my heart I send all my love and care and support, and know that the One who made us all will carry it across the miles to you. You're not alone, dear Judy. I'm so glad too that you and your mum had the conversation you had to have no matter how difficult it would have been at the time. It must be a great comfort to her to know that you and John and her family are prepared to carry out her wishes as she prepares for the long journey home, which really isn't all that long.

I love you Judy and John, no matter how far apart we are, and you and your mum are in my prayers and love tonight and for as long as you need that hon.

Much love,
Vicki (and Pogo who would give you kisses if she understood)

[themadtapper]

Oh hon.....

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGE HUGS}}}}}}}}}}

There are no words to make this easier for you. I am happy to know that at least you will be able to arrange things as she wished and that there will be no big stressful decision as to *what* to do since you both discussed it and prepared for it legally.

May I say that your words above about her journey from this life to the next were quite touching. Though I know that what you must be going through isn't easy.

All I can do is offer you my support, understanding and love and prayers during this time. Please - please - if you need *anything*, an ear.. whatever it may be... you know where I am.

Love to you and John!

[mythdefied]

We've only barely known each other in passing through the fandom, but my thoughts and good wishes are with you and your family now. I know this isn't easy, no matter how much you're prepared. I hope this comes out right: I wish your mother and easy, gentle passing and may she find all her loved ones waiting for her on the other side. Peace be with all of you.