This happened Last night

[artangel82]

Well, I am just here again in my bed crying again because of Mark. He finally called me at 11:24. He had not called me all day and he knos I get worried because of where he works and what he does. So I was worried something happened. He got mad at me........He said that he has been really stressed out because of the robbery and his mom having a

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[cherrygirl17]

hey maybe it will get better between yall..take care

Cycles

[working_dreamer]

Things with Mark seem to happen in cycles. It's always great to start out with; you get along really well and everything is fluffy bunnies and rainbow skies. Then comes the point in your relationship where things change and he makes you cry. The one you are meant to spend the rest of your life with will not blame you for all the relationship issues y'all have. He'd respect you and treat you with care and understanding. He wouldn't yell at yuo and tell you to consider him without considering you. This leads to what I have seen as the typically last part of your relationship where you get fed up with him and split. It's rough and you make it through but he comes crawling back saying I need you I need you. There is a control factor here. I know that I've said this before and I don't want to come across like a bitch; however, you continue to fall into this pattern. You have to be strong enough to break free from it. There is a man out there who can love you in a way that you have never imagined and (in my opinion) in a way that Mark will

Re: Cycles

[working_dreamer]

I agree ENTIRELY! He continuously shows a lack of respect and verbal aggression towards her, which will definitely turn into worse news the longer they are together. Even though I know to her this may sound terrible... but the good times in this situation CANNOT be allowed to outweigh the bad ones. She just needs the strength, that I know she has, to break away and go out on her own. I know there are men out there that will treat her 10x better!

Re: Cycles

[working_dreamer]

Exactly...the hardest part though is helping Krystle to realize it...and no matter how much we want to help her see that, she has to come into it on her own. It's difficult. I know what it's like to be where she is; I was there myself. I don't recall what snapped me out of it, but I know I'm much happier now!

Regardless, I know Krystle will pull through this and realize that you don't have to be treated with constant disrespect. There are really nice guys out there if you know what to look for and plenty of them would give their right arm to be with a girl like her.

[rin_666]

it sounds like you two need to give each other a little bit of space to cool down as you're winding each other up at stressful points in both of your lives. That and have a really good chat face to face instead of over the phone. Hope it manages to get sorted out.