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[artangel82]

I feel like i am a failure. I feel like my parents feel like I am a failure because I have been out of college for a year now. They prob. think I am a failure

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Grumble

[working_dreamer]

I wish I could help you not feel like a failure. Maybe it's time to re-evavluate your life. Look into yourself and ask yourself what would really make you happy. You gotta break free from your current situation...

I am praying for you...

Re: Grumble

[working_dreamer]

I somewhat agree. Think about what you can change and what you can't... then act on the things that you can change that will ultimately improve your life and make you happy. For instance... you can't change the health of your family members and you can't keep your parents from fighting (they have their own problems, not just their worries about you, I'm sure), so don't beat yourself up over those. On the other hand, think about the things/people that are causing the most stress and making you feel like a failure and CHANGE them

[artangel82]

like in what way re-evavalate? i don't understand....

[rin_666]

sweetheart you are NOT a failure and anyone who makes you feel like that should be shot! believe me whe I say I know how you feel I have the same kind fo relationship with my parents but I don't let it get to me cos no matter what I'm only a failure to myself if I don't do what I want from my life and they should accept that whether or not your sister is getting realy good grades and is the "perfect" daughter. You.Are.Not a failure. Please pleaseplease believe that.