you are a beautiful young lady who can move on and find another little hubby inna second. you dont need one anyway us be independant women. youre lovely
its not right to have you confused all the time....if he was the right guy you'd be together right now and never have the feeling of being alone or confused. Sounds to me that you girls are right....he doesnt want to be with you, but he doesnt want you to be with anyone else. Its kinda selfish really....dont let him have the satisfaction of knowing you'll always be there, because baby, one day you wont be. You'll be with someone else and he'll still be the same. You cant be like this for much longer girl, cuz you're not being yourself. You used to be the happy energetic girl, the one whose known for her gorgeous big smile,not the sad girl who cries. And anyways, i like the happier you. Break-ups are the shitty part of life, but i guess you have to accept them in the sense that they happen for a reason...girls are tougher than guys think, and hun, you're stronger that you even think. dont underestimate yourself, you're gonna find yourself a fine young man. (hehe)And Melissa, this all goes for you too ok!!! dont think you got away
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Do you blame the guy? who really wants their ex to move on, it makes them feel replaced. A part of him will always care about you, thats why he kind of wants you to always think about him, in a way its selfish but in another its what most people will do, it shows that he really did care about you. But you will move on, it will take time, probably a long time but it will happen. But i dont agree with Natalie on one thing, he probably does always want you to be there but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't be there for him if he needs you, you can always still be a good friend to him. Time is pretty much the only thing that could make things better, it sucks and all but its the only thing that you can do that will really help you out in the end.
i never said to not be there for him...i just meant that if he doesnt want her as a girlfriend she shouldnt pass up some other guy. And yeah he did care for her, and maybe still does...but he shouldnt be confusing her like this...it sucks to have your heart played with and it sucks to get your hopes crushed. for her sake he's gotta make up his mind, and stop leading her on. thats all i meant, i just dont want her to get hurt again...i care too much for her.
he might not be confusing her purposely. he is probably confused too, maybe even more then her, espacially if he is the one that broke up with her, he doesnt really know what to do anymore. He probably never thought she would find out about him beating on other guys that would hit on her so he never really gave it to much thought. Its great that you care for her and everything, but it doesn't mean that she should just shove him away for her to get better, making them both realise what is going on so they can both settle it would be the less painful thing to do. Because if Audrey makes herself happy but at his expense that happeness should not be hers to have. I might sound harsh but I do want you to be happy Audrey, i just might have a weird way of showing it
well thanks guys. i just think ill move on, but still talk to him from time to time. i mean he'll always be a part of me and erasing him from my life completely wont make me happier. i just have to work on things. natty thanks for the advice sweets you always nkow what to say.. xoxox love you, anonymous, thanks too. you guys helped.
Hey cupcakes!melanie_oxOctober 17 2004, 19:10:29 UTC
Heeey hun!! I miss you beautiful, can't wait to see you the 3rd, when we get our asses kicked by ur school! haha anyway, it isnt easy i kno, nothing is ever easy, but you'll come out of it, with time, and chocolate! :) Love you hun! Melanie
By the way, i have a prrrettty good idea who anonymous is... MUAHAHAHAHA!
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i just think ill move on, but still talk to him from time to time. i mean he'll always be a part of me and erasing him from my life completely wont make me happier. i just have to work on things.
natty thanks for the advice sweets you always nkow what to say.. xoxox love you,
anonymous, thanks too. you guys helped.
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and nobody will know who I am!!! MUAHAHAHAHA
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I miss you beautiful, can't wait to see you the 3rd, when we get our asses kicked by ur school! haha
anyway, it isnt easy i kno, nothing is ever easy, but you'll come out of it, with time, and chocolate! :)
Love you hun!
Melanie
By the way, i have a prrrettty good idea who anonymous is... MUAHAHAHAHA!
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