I'm posting this at a time when there's a lot of upheaval going on in my life... my spouse found a job in another city and I can't find a job there (not one I can stand) so we've sold our place that we lived in for the last 4 years, I just bought a small condo a few miles from there, and s/he is looking for a place in the city s/he's going to work ( Read more... )

Is sexuality learned or inherent? I grew up in a totally straight hetero environment and until my early twenties never had any sexual contact with anyone my own gender, or wanted it. Then one night friends, a couple, took me to bed with them. I was astonished to find myself as interested in touching, licking, rubbing and sucking of body parts of my ( Read more... )

I've decided I'm going to try to disguise my gender, for a while at least. Since I want to talk about bisexuality, and gender issues in general, I would like to get feedback from others based on what I have said, without any "baggage" of knowing whether I'm female or male. I don't want to upset anyone by this and I hope it's not considered flaky, ( Read more... )

This is the first time I have ever been in a (community? organization? group?) like this. Although I am a computer professional, I have never before blogged, journaled, wiki'd or partaken of any such new media. And this is my first posting ( Read more... )