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[avoiceinurhead]

I dont update often. I discovered a while back that when I update its a sign that I am hurt or depressed, more often both, so I think it a good thing I dont post much

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[devilsangel04]

wow... from reading that i know what we can gain from talking, we are each the opposite side of this "break up" coin. ok, tomorrow night, or is it tonight since it's past midnight? we definitely will hang and talk and whatnot. definitely.

[avoiceinurhead]

For sure. I know we both need it.

[ericaamericka]

The only way to get out of it is to distance yourself from her. I know that sounds awful, and hard, and you still really care about her so you don't want to. However, as long as she's around to remind you of everything you had, and everything you want back, it's going to be very hard to get over her. I'm not saying to stop being friends with her completely...but maybe not be friends on such a personal level. A couple of my friends are going through this...I've probably told you about them, and he's stopped hanging out with her on his own. He pretty much only hangs out with her when we do, and it's working out for the better. It's alot easier to get over something when you're not constantly reminded of it.

[avoiceinurhead]

The funny thning is I kninga know that. Anytime my friends break up, I tell them the same basic thing, yet now that its me, I cant follow my own advice. Funny how the human mind works isnt it?

[ericaamericka]

Yeah.