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Feb 24, 2006 10:19

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marta128 February 24 2006, 16:58:46 UTC

Ah so many things ( ... )

i concur eyestothe_sun February 25 2006, 00:12:52 UTC

marta, i dont know you but brilliantly put.

ditto.

but i am sorry...
i love you. (offers hug and meek smile) (to teresa, no offense marta)

pinguinfeliza February 25 2006, 03:35:45 UTC

I mean, I don't know anything about your relationship with Andrew...but being clear about the issue of children is important, and it's dangerous to put yourself in a situation where you're fooling yourself and will most likely be disappointed.

Just think about it. This is one of the most important issues when discussing lifelong partnerships, and you'll regret it later if you ignore it now.

dunkel_mentat February 25 2006, 05:40:22 UTC

Yeah. What she said.

los7685 February 26 2006, 00:03:22 UTC

are you pregnant?

all you need is love? (do do do do do) sarah226 March 1 2006, 10:05:55 UTC

Well... I guess the one thing I have to say (just b/c marta basically just said it all) is that in my opinion and experience love isn't all you need. Shared values and life goals can make or break all the love in the world... as we're seeing here. Its like the Sex and the City when the Russian didn't want more kids and Carrie had to decide if that was her "bottom line." Clearly it IS your bottom line, and thats important.
Also, try to think about past loves... you loved them more completely than you had loved before. Who's to say there isn't more than this? Not that you don't love him and he doesn't love you-- I don't doubt it. But that love with someone who shares your values might be more powerful, and more enduring because of it.
ALSO
Andrew is retarded and has his priorities fucked up. The way I see it is "faith first, family second, career third" Obviouisly he's the other way around.