The Postman always rings twice (lol idk if thats really the name or not)
So that guy showed up at my apartment AGAIN! So like 2 min after he got here I came out to him and told him I was trans and really scared him and he left. LOL. I wish I had taken a picture of his face. It really creeped me out when he showed up again and I am so glad he's gone. Problem Solved! haha
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Do you always get involved with guys without putting the trans thing on the table right away? If I was post-op, I'd probably not mention the subject ever, but as pre-op, I try to avoid situations with suitors who don't know. I tried that once and the guy jumped up out of the bed and flew out the window. The sad thing, it was his bed.
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The first guy I ever dated I waited like a month or two before I told him because I was really scared and nervous about it. But since then I usually like to tell a guy by the 3rd or 4th date at the latest. This guy from last night I was going to tell the last time I saw him but then he was being an asshole so I left like 20 min after I got to his apartment and didn't tlak to him again until he showed up.
Sometimes I tell guys that I am not interested in that I am trans because it is such an easy way to get them to leave me alone esp. if I ask them how they feel about me putting my thing in them. I really have no interest in using it but it gets them out of my hair pretty quick and without asking very many questions. LOL. Thats what I meant when I said I really scared the guy last night. HAHA!
Where do you find suitors that already know?
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That's awesome.
Um... Well I live in New York City. There's a lot of people here with a lot of different flavors and tastes. You know, so if a guy is hitting on me, I can usually tell if he's clocked me and he's into my situation or if he hasn't clocked me at all. Normally I cannot stomach the individuals who would fall under the title of "tranny chaser," but I've met a few guys that have been pretty articulate, cool, intelligent and funny and just happens to really be into trans women. I've had few good experiences and met some really cool guys. I'm pretty tough on them though, because I have met so many creeps who are just into my genitals or are bottoms or are deeply closeted/conflicted, but if a guy is stand-up and meets my high standards, we can have a good time, you know, if he's into hot trans women, what the hell... I'm a hot trans woman ( ... )
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